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He told me to let loose.
Ok, I'll give you the complete awkward truth: the guy i had my first kiss with and first uhh..other stuff.. with, told me he wnted me to let loose during the year until i see him again (which i guess means he wants me to make out and fool around with alot of guys so i'd get better at it so hell like it next year) now there's this guy who is obsessed with me and ould do anything for me to "do stuff" even if it didnt mean anything to me..so technically I could use him to "practice on" and when i meet the guy i acutally like it wont be as bad and awkward this year.. but im hesitating.. i dont think i want to be that kind of girl. i dont want to kiss someone i dont like. but then again- i do want to be good at kissing for when i see him again. so he wont get disapointed again.
please help me
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He wants you to practice? Does he have a big "L"
tattooed on his forehead? He should have. If he
was good enough himself he would have taught you
what he liked. Messing around with a dozen other
guys will not make you any better.
This sounds like a guy who just wants to be free
to mess around himself without feeling guilty
about it. I say let him and find a real man.
Kiss whoever you want & leave alone those you
don't. :)
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Just no.
*You'll most probably end up hurting the one you use to "practice on"
*If the guy you shared your first kiss etc with had any respect for you, he wouldn't have told you to "let loose" just so it benefits him. It flat out sounds like he's using you.
Respect yourself.
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Why are you doing these things anyway? Messing around with a bunch of different guys is only going to get you in big trouble whether it would be with the law or you would catch something. I think you should tell the dude to forget you and move on. You really don't need a guy like that in your life.
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I was sort of in the same situation I began to hookup with someone I wasn't so crazy for and it continued and continued and his feelings kept growing for me well I really didnt care for him. And in the end I really hurt him (which wasn't my intentions) So I wouldn't start "practicing on" this boy unless you think something will come out of it
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i would say no. you really dont want to be that kind of person, and youo dont want other people knowing it.
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i wouldn't do it. because guys like that talk, and if you don't want someone talking about every little thing you do intimately, then i wouldn't. find a respectable guy, and take it slow. you don't make out and do stuff JUST to get better at it.
that's just my opinion.
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