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how to get somone to belive me.
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me and my boyfriend have been together for 19 months... he has liked his ex. and my best frends before.. while we were going out. but i forgave him casue we have been through alot.. it yeah we love eachother.. but a while ago i had a ONE day thing for this kid.. it was stupid and nothing.. he found out.. it took a while for him to belive me but he did.. and things were amazing. we just stopped fighting and everything was good. i completly stopped talking to the guy.. he never stopped talking to any of his girls and i dont have one guy i talk to.. hes kinda jelilous..lol ok so now the SAME ex girlfrien he had a thing for told him that when i liked this guy we kissed. witch DIIIIIIIIIID NOT HAPPEN.. but he would rather belive her than me.. i love him and wanna be with him so how do i get him to belive me.. he already called the guy and he said he didnt.. but he still dos not belive me..
what do i do..?
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So.... He's taking ex girl friend's word over YOURS? What kind of deal is that?
You can talk to him about it and try to straighten it out. But to be quite honest, if he is such a jealous guy, you can talk and talk until you puke coat hangers and he STILL may not believe you.
If I were in your shoes?
I think I'd be moving on. I know, that's hard to do. But really, his past behavior and the fact that he holds more trust in what the ex says over what you say tell me that you can do a whole hell of a lot better for yourself.
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He obviously has trust issues!! He either doesn't trust you or he is using this as an excuse to get back with his ex.
Either way, if he believes his ex, I would be absolutely furious!!! He should have no reason to believe her. They broke up for a reason and if their not over each other he shouldn't have formed a relationship with you!
Second, he's probably hurt from what he heard. I mean if you were told that about your boyfriend, of course your going to ask questions. You might not think you wont but you will!
Third, you need to talk to him. Ask him if he trusts you! If he says yes then there shouldn't be anything to worry about, you two should be able to get on with your lives. If he says no, then I think it's time to find someone else. You can't have a relationship without trust!!
Obviosuly you trust him a lot if he is getting around with his ex girlfriend!
Hope I helped! :)
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