|
confused.
i like this guy, and we exchanged numbers and he texted me first that night.
anyways, i don't know if he likes me, sometimes it seems like he does but other times it seems like he likes someone else.
i don't know how i can tell, what are some sure ways that i would be able to tell he likes me.
like sometimes i catch him looking at me in class, and if i catch him he usually looks away and smiles.
anyhelp, thanks.
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
He likes you. It's pretty obvious- you know the three day rule? (Don't call/text until three days after you get the number.) He totally broke that for you. And besides that, he's obviously interested in you because he looks at you all the time in class. It's a little hard to tell because I don't know you in real life, but ask your friends if it seems like he likes you. It may seem like he likes someone else because he is trying not to seem too interested, or desperate or something. Keep texting him and see where it goes :)
]
I think that he is interested, because one of the very infamous flirting techniques is when you catch a guy looking at you, and he immediately looks away.
Other ways to tell:
- Makes an effort to touch you [hug, high five, pokes you on the shoulder/stomach/side, you get what I'm saying].
- Tries to sit close to you. For example, your class is watching a movie, and he comes and sits next to you, even if his buddies are on the other side of the room.
- He'll do time consuming favors for you. For example, you need to know the name of something for a project, and he takes time out of his own free time to go and look it up for you.
- He butts into your conversations. You're talking to your friends, and he joins in on the conversation.
- He always 'seems' to show up wherever you are.
- If you're feeling down, he'll try to cheer you up.
- When you guys are talking, does he lean forward and seem open? He's interested.
- He tries to get your attention, he'll come up with nicknames, or continuously tease you about something that happened a billion years ago.
- His friends are more friendly to you.
- He uses your name in the conversation. For example, you do something funny, and he goes 'Haha nice... [your name]'
* If he wants to talk to you all the time,
* If he starts acting nicer when you're around him,
* If he says yes to all the things you ask him to do,
* If he treats you differently to other girls,
* If he looks at you a lot every time you smile or laugh,
* If he acts immature around you, like poking, teasing or playful flirting,
* If he seems to always want to hang out with you,
* If he gets closer with a body part, or if he tries to touch you (ex. when you touch him he might touch you back showing affection and compassion),
* If you catch him peeking at you and he smiles,
* If he tries to make you laugh, or if he tries to copy you,
* If he walks up to you out of the blue and hugs you,
* If he tries to keep you in view for as long as possible, or tends to look around and stop when he finds you,
* If he subtly looks at you but makes it look like he is looking at the girl next to him,
* If he goes out of his way to talk to you (ex. if he goes to the other side of the school to talk to you because he knows you have a class there),
* If you block him on instant messenger and stop talking to him, and he finds a way to talk to you,
* If he invites you to his birthday party or any kind of party,
* If you flirt with a friend of his when he can see, and he looks jealous or automatically flirts back,
* If he talks to you and wants to know how you're doing,
* If he is nicer or tries to talk to your friends,
* If he asks about you to your friends when you're not around
* If he asks you to dance with him at the dance.
* If he walks past you and tries to look cool so you can glance at him
* If he starts flirting with your friends to make you jealous.
* If a guy tries to show you things he got that are somewhat expensive (ex. a cellphone)...he probably likes you...he's trying to impress you,
* It depends on the guy really -- there could be a chance that if he ignores you at times, that he likes you, and is just intimidated. Or maybe on the defense, thinking that you don't like him THAT way, and thus if he rejects you FIRST, his ego remains intact.
* If he always talks to you there's a great chance that he likes you.
Sorry if the ones with the stars repeat the ones with the little dashes next to them. I copied and pasted them from a website.
Best of luck!
]
If a boy keeps looking at you and then looks away, he could like you.
If he compliments you on something (like you having nice hair, etc.), he may be interested.
If he calls you for help on homework or something, he could be flirting or he may just really need help with homework.
Ask if he would go out on a date with you, and if he says yes, he probably likes you too, so you should just say you would like to go out with him too.
If he makes fun of you (poking, etc.) he may like you, or just likes making fun of people.
Look to see if he acts different around you than other people. That usually means that he likes you.
If he makes jokes around you find out if he does that to others, if he doesn't, you know he likes you
He stares at you and holds his gaze like forever, he likes you.
Smiles and looks away or waits if you smile back
Dont play hard to get because the guy you really like will just give up on you and move on then find some other girl, then you would have never known what could have been.
If he flirts with other girls around you, and only you, he likes you but it also shows that you are playing hard to get so he is trying to drag you into liking him more. Do not change who you are. If he likes you for who you might be, then he's not for you. If he likes you for you and you change, he might not like you anymore. If he looks and keeps on smiling, walk up to him kiss him, and he might like you more, because he will know that you are brave to do it in a crowd of people, but only kiss him if he leans in to kiss you too. Guys can be confusing don't take the signs the wrong way and if you do, tell him that you thought he did like you.
This may or may not work out in your benefit.
If the guys keeps making fun of you, tell a teacher/adult.
These tips may be too vague and could go either way.
]
More Questions: |