ok, I was with my much older 2nd cousin last night, he's 30 I'm 16 and I'm in love with him, he feels the same way. Anyway, I gave him a small kiss on the lips right, and before we knew it we were REALLY REALLY close to making out. WHAT DO I DO?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? M0DERNDAYBARBiE answered Wednesday March 12 2008, 2:55 pm: he is really close to your family tree, if you two got married, there is high chances of your children having bird defects, also, i doubt your family would approve. i know that you probably didn't want to hear that but i had to tell you. also, the age difference is very great. you're only 16, you can find someone else. i know that probably sucks to hear that too and i'm sorry about that. but just keep in mind that there are other people.
Tammers66 answered Tuesday March 11 2008, 11:03 pm: He's your second cousin??? that would mean he is one of your parents cousin....which means he is in your family! don't you think that is a little weird? i don't want to be mean and i know that i am going to get a very low rating for this but i don't think the rest of your family would approve of this....and they would also consider him a pedifile(not sure how to spell it) don't go any further with this fling you have with your family member:S [ Tammers66's advice column | Ask Tammers66 A Question ]
Sima answered Tuesday March 11 2008, 4:30 pm: Okay, so I've seen your question 3 times, and I think it's time that I've finally given my answer.
I realize that you guys may be in love, and that's alright, but please, just wait 2 years until you're legal to pursue anything. I don't know how much longer you guys will be able to go on, because I'm sure that someone in your family has noticed already. He's 14 years older than you, and he could get in a LOT of trouble for messing around with a minor.
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