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i like him so much!
so i asked this guy to sadie hawkins dance. he said yes, and my friend has been trying to "matchmake" us.
hes not the type to show much affection and its going kinda slow, so what can i do to speed things up? i really like him and i want this to go somewhere!
any advice!
thankyou
female/17yo
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The good news is: Asking him to a dance is a huuuuge accomplishment. It means that even if he's not sure he wants to date you, he's at least interested enough to want to spend the night with you and learn more about you. There isn't much to do to "speed it up", he has to decide on his own time if he really likes you, but try to make it a little obvious that if he were so interested, you would want to see him again (given the dance goes well) Mention little stuff, it doesn't even have to be something you really mean like "oh? you like doing (fill in the blank) too? we should totally do that sometime!" Guys like to live in the moment, so bring up something in the near future to get his mind in thinking about seeing you again so he can consider it. Remember, guys are so less perceptive to signals than girls, it's okay to be a little obvious you want a second date, make him comfortable with asking you
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keep flirting
but dont push too hard. i mean, dont scare him off.
when you see him make eye contact and smile. if he looks away as soon as you do, give him a couple of days.
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