okay so theres this guy that i like. and he likes me back. but then he goes and tells me how 3 girls from this other school like him (i know all of these girls btw) and tells me that 2 of them were fighting over who would get to hook up with him and stuff. like i just thought that was really obnoxious of him to do. and yeah when one of his friends asked me out last week i told him, kinda to make him jealous, but idk like i just dont know if i should like him anymore or not. like should i keep going normally like texting him and stuff or should i lay off and play hard to get?
flamantrose answered Sunday March 9 2008, 8:44 pm: Ha, as trite as it sounds, yes men are relatively unintelligent creatures. It's a safe bet he's exaggerating QUITE a bit about other girls especially if you have suspicions that he likes you. He's "testing the waters" so to speak. He doesn't want to get rejected by you, and is probably blowing things out of proportion in an attempt to see what reaction you give him. I'd say, don't totally give up if you like him, but don't humor him by putting up with the bullshit. Make it clear that if he wants to waste time testing you, you have other options. Even be up front with him about it if you have to. Tell him either shape up and ask you out if he likes you, or to leave you alone [ flamantrose's advice column | Ask flamantrose A Question ]
swoods7 answered Sunday March 9 2008, 7:59 pm: i think you should maybe stay away from him...his attitude isnt right to me. if he really likes you then he wouldnt tell you all these things to piss you off. even though guys are pretty much uneducated about how to treat girls but they do know how to make girls get mad.
alhxx answered Sunday March 9 2008, 7:52 pm: definaltly text him normally and stuff. just be his friend, and talk like your his friend and stuff, because he might get the point your coming across that it was obnoxious of him to say that. [ alhxx's advice column | Ask alhxx A Question ]
sao3 answered Sunday March 9 2008, 7:45 pm: Ok i think this guy really likes you and is just trying to make you jealous and think he is cool.you could tell him that you dont care that girls are fighting over him and you dont think it is cool. That is how some guys act. If you like his friend then you should go out with him.But ya i really think the guy is just trying to act all cooL and get you to like him. [ sao3's advice column | Ask sao3 A Question ]
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