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How to ask about oral
How can I ask my boyfriend to give me oral sex..
and how can I ask him to finger me?
I can't figure out ways of asking him!
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Bring his fingers up to your mouth suck on them then put then in your vagina
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I used to have the same problem. I was just really shy about it, even when he tried to do it to me, I was shy and it took him like 5 or 6 tries before I was able to open up. I had it before him, but every time before that I had been shy and felt guilty after. If you really love him, then you both should be able to communicate about sex. Just like if he upsets you, you let him know right? If he does something nice for you, you let him know right? So, now you wanna talk about oral sex. Don't take it too seriously. Just say honey, I want to talk to you about our sex life...how open are you to trying new things. Maybe look through a Kama sutra book together. That is what helped me and my guy a lot with communication. We looked at the pictures and said what do you think about trying that one and that one. You know? It's a good Ice Breaker. If he says no, you know find out about it, maybe he is shy, or maybe he was taught it was wrong. On the other hand, he may want to and may have been too scared to bring it up. :) Hope that helps.
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You don't ask him, if you give him oral or you jack him off, it's only normal you should expect a little in return.
Hint around, maybe even pull his hands in that direction so he gets the hint.
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