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This girl told him.
Ok so this girl (use to be my friend but she just ended up being a boy crazed jerk) told me this boy, Erin, liked me. She asked me if I liked him and I said no (I'm not really into boys yet). And like her jerky self she went and told Erin that I didnt like him. It broke his heart. I would never tell a boy I dont like him I would say somthing like "I like you alot too but not like that I just want to stay friends for now". But my jerky friend would say somthing like "There is no way she would ever like you". What should I do, my jerkey friend really broke his heart and the blame is on me. All advice apreciated.
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Don't answer her at all... Just don't. Act like she isn't there in the future. Ask him if he just wants to be friends in person. Don't make her tell him. NEVER tell your friend anything personal like that again. Just answer something like
"I can't answer that."
"..." or just ignore her.
or if it is online messaging say something like this
"I have to go now, sorry."
Tell him that it isn't true and you just want to be friends. I know, I am like that too. I would never let down a girl if she liked me and I didn't like her. I would just ask if it was ok if we were just friends.
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It's not your fault. At all.
You don't have to do a thing.
Never telling a boy you didn't like him, now that would be mean.
Breaking a heart is always kinder then leading people on and lying to them anyways.
If she was harsh in her words to him, that is her fault, and his fault for trying to get an answer from someone who is insensitive like that. You should never ask someone for help if thier idea of 'help' is punching you in the chest when a simply tap would have done just as well.
He made a poor judgement. Not you.
Anyone who blames you for this is a very foolish, petty little person. Tell them as much.
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ask him if he wants to hang out, as friends and tell him that your "friend" said it wrong and that you like just not that way yet.
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Have one of your other friends talk to Erin. She can tell him, "What that other girl told you wasn't exactly true. She DOES like you a lot as a friend, but she just doesn't want a boyfriend right now." Or, if you have the guts, you could tell him that yourself. Good luck! =]
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