If it is on AIM or something like that, how should I get her AIM without it seeming plain out obvious why?
I read somewhere that in front of a crowd is bad, because you can both embarrass each other, either way. I think this is why: If a girl rejects the boy, the boy gets made fun of, which will probably make the girl feel sad(if she has a heart :P), and if they go out, their friends will bug her about it.
Additional info, added Wednesday March 5 2008, 8:10 pm: Ok, I never get a chance to talk to her when she is alone because she is really never alone. I never am able to get into a conversation with her because of her friend always butting in. I am not really her friend because I never get to talk to her, even though we are in the same academic classes. I've only been able to talk to her once, which went completely badly. I asked what grade she got in Math, and I was nervous, and yeah, she said "Non of your business." it was kind of my fault for acting nervous, as I was shaking a bit.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? M0DERNDAYBARBiE answered Friday March 7 2008, 2:34 pm: before asking her out, try talking to her more on AIM. randomly IM her every now and then and ask her how her day went, or tell her randomly one day in class that the shirt she is wearing makes her eyes look amazing. then when you get to the point of asking her out, i think you should do it if you actually do get a chance alone with her, but if you don't you can do it on AIM, but make sure its sweet. say something along the lines of "i really like you *insert name* and its okay if you don't feel the same, i just need you to know how i feel. and if you feel the same thats great, and i would love to date you. but if you don't i completely understand." be nice about it, but make sure its clear how much you care about her.
Ask_G answered Wednesday March 5 2008, 9:35 pm: if you don't talk to her alot then you first should get her screen name, and then start talking to her, get to know her.
and theen if you cant talk to her in person by herself . call her or something don't ask her out over aiim. [ Ask_G's advice column | Ask Ask_G A Question ]
LOL_x0x answered Wednesday March 5 2008, 7:26 pm: Just tell her!
Life is too short to not take chances, seriously. If you don't make a move, you'll spend forever and a day wondering what could've, would've, or should've happened between the 2 of you.
Tell her when you're alone with her, is my suggestion. It' just more intimate that way.
If on AIM, just ask her for her screen name? It's not big deal. Then, just start a casual conversation, and then say it.
As for what to say, just tell her how you feel. Tell her you want to be her boyfriend because you like her. Then tell her WHY you like her, and that you hope she feels the same way.
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