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cant trust her
ok so theres this friend of mine.she is like one of my best friends.well i told her who i like a long time ago.well she was talking to me from across the room and kinda told his best friend and i think him. so that was a long time ago and i convinced her that i liked someone else so that no one else found out. he never said anything so i figured he forgot or never found out.PS...he sits beside me in 4 classes in a row.well last night she and i went to the movies and i told her that i liked him again.today in the first class with him she decided that she was going to tell everyone that i like him after i asked her not to.now im almost positive that he knows and i know for a fact that almost the whole 7th grade now knows. i havent talked to her since and i dont think i can trust her anymore. should i give her another chance or tell her the problem.
PS she is also mean to me alot and always telling me that i shouldnt quit my dayjob to sing. i wouldnt mind as much if i didnt have a good voice but everyone that has ever heard me sing has told me im really good. i just dont feel good about myself while shes around.
ALSO im not sure how to deal with the guy i like tomarrow. he is like one of my best friends and i cant just not talk to him.
HELP PLEASE!! ANSWER TONIGHT IF YOU CAN!!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
A real friend wouldn't do that.
What's the point of having a friend, when she makes you feel bad about yourself?
Don't ignore the guy, talk to him like normal, and if he brings up the subject, see how he says it and then tell him whether it's the truth or not.
And for your friend, tell her that you can't trust her, so you can be her friend, but just not a close one.
Good luck! :)
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She doesn't sound like a true friend. True friends won't tell others your secrets and they won't be mean to you. I say that you should give her another chance, but I'm not saying that you should completly trust her. Just be casual friends with her and let her win your trust back. I suggest that you don't tell her things that are really important, like who you like, but just talk about things like movies and stuff. Also, about the singing thing, she could just be jelous of the fact that you have a good voice. I have known plenty of people who will try to stop you from going after your dream just because they are jelous. If you have a good voice and you want to persue a career in singing then go for it! And about the guy, it is possible that he might like you and if he dosen't then he is the one missing out. If he dosen't like you then he isn't worth it. I know that it is also possible that if he doesn't like you that things will get awkward between you two, but if he is like most guys, he will just say he doesn't like you and then act like it never happened. You should just approach him, tell him that you like him, and then see what happens. And let me tell you this, if he doesn't like you, sure you'll be upset, but it's not the end of the world. And it may take some time, but I know from experience that you will get over it. I wish you the best of luck with your so called "best friend" and the guy that you like and I hope things turn out well.
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