Gender: Female
Location: Washington
Age: 14
Member Since: March 4, 2008
Answers: 2
Last Update: March 5, 2008
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trying to make this part of the story shorter
there was a boy (y) i met 2-3 years ago
we went out the first time for about a month and i broke up with him for some ridiculous reason
then we ended up going out again like 2 months later for around 9 months, we ended up breaking up because he was wayyy to clingy and i couldnt take the jealousy anymore
3 months after we broke up we started going out again on new years
we made it until last week, when i found out he was at a party, drinking and smoking and possibly kissed a girl behind my back.
i obviously broke up with him for that
a few days ago, we just got back together. i think he apoligized and really meant it and a lot of other stuff
we are eachothers first pretty much everything, real relationship and all that other stuff
he says he loves me and i really do believe it
im 14/f, hes 16/m
alright now insert another guy (r)
i met him sometime around when i was going out with y for the second time
as i started talking to him i thought i liked him but i think it just faded or something.
months later, new school year started. (for me and r, first yr of high school). were in the same homeroom
while im still going out with y i knew r liked me
but nevertheless we were just like best friends he never tried anything on me or anything.
he made me the most amazing birthday gift ever (hes really creative, he made me this whole book of drawings and things he wrote)
when me and y broke up, he hung out with me and took me to the mall and all this other stuff
why it never worked out with us during that time period is still something i dont understand
alright now to the present
i just got back together with y and think i might like r
i got back together with him because i really thought i loved and cared about him, but if im having so many thoughts with r then maybe i dont?
i mean theres a lot of pros and cons about the both of them
but i have no idea what to do
help please? (link)
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Well, the way I see it you have given y a lot of chances and it still isn't working out for you two. No offence, but maybe you and y aren't meant to be together or maybe it's just the wrong time for you and him to be in a relationship. I know you are only 14, but can you see yourself ever getting married to him? One main reson for being in a relationship is so that you can get to know what kind of a guy you want to marry. And if you really do like r, then you might as well give him a chance and see how it works out. The worst that could happen is that you realize that you don't like r that way and if that happens you could just break up with him. If you really like r then just give him a chance.
Hope I helped.
- Affinity
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ok so theres this friend of mine.she is like one of my best friends.well i told her who i like a long time ago.well she was talking to me from across the room and kinda told his best friend and i think him. so that was a long time ago and i convinced her that i liked someone else so that no one else found out. he never said anything so i figured he forgot or never found out.PS...he sits beside me in 4 classes in a row.well last night she and i went to the movies and i told her that i liked him again.today in the first class with him she decided that she was going to tell everyone that i like him after i asked her not to.now im almost positive that he knows and i know for a fact that almost the whole 7th grade now knows. i havent talked to her since and i dont think i can trust her anymore. should i give her another chance or tell her the problem.
PS she is also mean to me alot and always telling me that i shouldnt quit my dayjob to sing. i wouldnt mind as much if i didnt have a good voice but everyone that has ever heard me sing has told me im really good. i just dont feel good about myself while shes around.
ALSO im not sure how to deal with the guy i like tomarrow. he is like one of my best friends and i cant just not talk to him.
HELP PLEASE!! ANSWER TONIGHT IF YOU CAN!! (link)
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She doesn't sound like a true friend. True friends won't tell others your secrets and they won't be mean to you. I say that you should give her another chance, but I'm not saying that you should completly trust her. Just be casual friends with her and let her win your trust back. I suggest that you don't tell her things that are really important, like who you like, but just talk about things like movies and stuff. Also, about the singing thing, she could just be jelous of the fact that you have a good voice. I have known plenty of people who will try to stop you from going after your dream just because they are jelous. If you have a good voice and you want to persue a career in singing then go for it! And about the guy, it is possible that he might like you and if he dosen't then he is the one missing out. If he dosen't like you then he isn't worth it. I know that it is also possible that if he doesn't like you that things will get awkward between you two, but if he is like most guys, he will just say he doesn't like you and then act like it never happened. You should just approach him, tell him that you like him, and then see what happens. And let me tell you this, if he doesn't like you, sure you'll be upset, but it's not the end of the world. And it may take some time, but I know from experience that you will get over it. I wish you the best of luck with your so called "best friend" and the guy that you like and I hope things turn out well.
-Affinity
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