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My friends boyfriend or mine?
Well, My friend lets call her Judy, is going out with a guy i like but before they went out i dropped hints that i liked him, im guessing he got them because when i walked with Judy, her boyfriend kept smiling at me. but i dont want to be mean and be a little slut so should i lay low for a while and wait or what shall i do? im having a crisis, she is a very kwel person to hang out with and well a nice friend i defintly dont want to be a slut and talkt o him while they are together. so....? help me out here please. and thanks
well all these happened in a week time period.
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Don't read too deeply into a smile.
For now, just ignore your feelings. If he behaves in a flirty or inappropriate way say "Hey, you are dating my friend, I don’t think that is cool."
It's fine to keep talking to him, just keep it strictly on the friend-level. If he can't keep it strictly on the friend-level, give him a colossal boot in the ass and ignore him until he can.
It’s not slutty to like a guy. The only thing that is wrong is allowing flirting to go on with a guy with a girlfriend. Just make sure there is no flirting and you will do just fine.
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Well, if he's going out with your friend he's off limits for now.
If they ever break up and you still like him, before you make a move you would have to double-check to make sure Judy is okay with it.It's very important to keep your friend's feelings in mind. Also be sensitive to the timing. Don't immediately jump on him like five minutes after they break up. Wait it out. And who knows, by the time they break up you could have a crush on another guy who may be 1000 times more amazing than this guy...
Good luck...=]
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