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Loosing all my friends and i dont know why.
The past month i have been suffering relationships with all of my friends....first im being blamed 4 everything when it isnt even my fault and they just dont seem 2 want 2 b around me....please give me advice!!!
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Omg honey. i am in the same boat. I am in eighth grade and that happened to me. i just didnt care after a while. they didnt want to be my friend screw them they are missing out. so i joined a new clique. i made new friends and everything was good. dont think you need to be friends with them to be popular. go make some neew friends trust me it iwill work
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I would follow the other two answers and also remember that some people are really immuture and might be listening to other people. maybe one person is mad at you for some reason and everyone is following suit. Talk to the one that you think will tell you the truth. Tell them you can't do anything to fix this until you know what you are doing wrong.
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Okay, take a step back and breathe. It isn't your fault sweetie. People change and grow apart. Maybe some of your friends are going through a rough time in their lives and they need someone to blame. Sometimes when people feel vulnerable, they lash out at someone who they feel intimidated by or jealous of. That's just one possibility that it could be; I'm not there witnessing this firsthand so I'm totally going from my own past experiences.
It isn't fair that it has to be you, but show them that you are a good supportive friend (without being pushy or obnoxious). No matter what the reason for them acting like this is, you need to continue being there for them.
However, if this continues to the point where they totally disrespect you and shun you completely despite your efforts, are they worth it? Do what you can to keep it together, but there comes a point where enough is enough.
I really hope you can work it out with your friends. I totally understand and am here if you have any more problems. Good luck!
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have you changed? are you being bossy? are your friends changing, and you're refusing to? do you hang out with them enough? too much? do you smell funny.
i really don't know your friends, but these are questions you should be asking yourself.
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