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Were supposed to be crazy!
Ok well its my senior year in high school, you know that last year of high school when kids are supposed to go crazy and have the time of your life. Well anyway, this past summer my friends and I were talking and saying that were not going to care about anyone or anything this year, were just going to have fun. Well that didn't quite last long because now my friends ALL got boyfriends. Not one of my close friends is single. Now when I want to go out and have fun and party they tell me, "oh my boyfriend has to come" or "i cant go because hes gonna get mad at me" or "I have to talk to him on the phone for a million and a half hours before I go to sleep". Its, to say the least, really annoying. They all act like they're married, and I'm getting reeeallly sick of it. I mean I'm extremely happy for all of them, but it seems like they all just gave up and centered their whole life around their boyfriends, and meanwhile I'm bored as hell, and my weekends consist of everyone paired up except me. I don't even want a relationship, I just wanna have fun!
ugh help!
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You can't stop your friends from spending time with their boyfriends, so just find some other senior girls at your school who are single and just wanna have fun. Still do stuff with your close friends, but just have some others on the side that will go party with you and not worry about anything or any one else. Sometimes you need a little time away from your close friends, especially boy obsessed friends.
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i say, find a a guy (well, a bunch of guys) and always bring one of them along.
you know, not a boyfriend but just a guy you can have fun with while all of your friends are being all romantic.
explain to your friends that being in a relationship is great, and that you respect that about them, but theyve really got to loosen up and have fun.
bring everyone out to see a hilarous movie
or invite them all over for a waterballoon fight
just be silly... have fun! u CAN do that in couples!
best of luck,
-L
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