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Social Worker
I have befriended my old schools social worker. She gave me her num,ber when I left my old school and we talk every once and a while when I get up the courage. Well during this past summer we went out to eat and got a chance to talk. (by the way this was all her idea, I just called to schedule!) Anyways...my family told me it was weird that I was talking to the social worker and that I should have left her behind. The problem is, is that I don't talk to my mom and I need an adult outlet, and she is it. SO do you think it is wrong to keep talking to her on her personal phone and going out with her every once in a while? She is in middle school and I am in high school if that helps
Thanks a bunchh <333
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it sounds like its totally fine. she's a professional adult who works at a school. most likely she's safe but you never know. there's been a lot of teachers that have like raped their students and stuff. just be careful. i know that a lot of girls from my school still talk to the middle school social worker. once you talk to someone about your problems and you completely trust them, you form a special bond. it's okay to talk to her. it's her job. she probably enjoys being a social worker and that is why she's keeping in touch with you.
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Oh, I'm so sorry for worrying about your safety.
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Talking on the phone is OK.
I don't think that meeting outside of school is considered 'OK'. Your mom is only worried about your safety. You met her in middle school, it's not like you've known her your entire life.
Keep talking to her on the phone, but I would probably not suggest meeting her outside of school for the sake of your safety.
You might think that she's 'cool', but you're naive [as is any other teen]. You don't know her past, or if she's been convicted of anything.
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