Question Posted Saturday February 23 2008, 12:35 pm
ok i have a friend and she is my friend somedays but other days shes a really big b***h. i talk bad about her behind her back with another one of my really close friends.
well this friend of mine ahs a boyfriend and he is the one i liked last year, but my friend hated him (last year) and now they're going out. she is so obbsesed with him. and plus before she was dating this guy she was really good friends with this other guy but now shes says tons of crap about him for no reason. i dont understand her. and plus she talks bad about my other friends and me sometimes. but she can be a really good friend. what can i do with her? ignore her or be the best friend i can be?? idk
Well think about when your relationship started going downhill. Was their an event that started it off? If so talk about it with your friend and try to patch up your relationship first. If that doesn't work and she keeps acting weird and rude explain to her that you can't be her friend if she keeps acting the way she is. What might also help is if you have other friends that feel the same way about her, nice but can be kind of b***h, get them to speak to her separately so she sees its more then one person thinking she is acting different. Hope you work it out.
brie answered Saturday February 23 2008, 2:40 pm: Sounds to me like none of you are friends, you say you dont know what to do with her, i dont understand, your two peas in a pod, you both are talking behind each others backs, take a good look at your own house before you start working on someone elses. BRIE [ brie's advice column | Ask brie A Question ]
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