Question Posted Saturday February 23 2008, 4:55 am
I dated this girl named jessica for about to mounts and she got pragent with our baby and she was 19 years old and when she told her mom and dad thay told her it was me and the baby or them and she told me it was over and she had to get rid of the baby and now we are talking again kinda and every time we see each other we want to get back togeather but she alway talks about her mom and dad so i was just wondering what should i do about this im 17 years old and i am a mal
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? xlovexx463 answered Saturday February 23 2008, 5:19 pm: Family is very important and she chose to keep the peace with her parents. It's a very sad decision to have to make, but in this case it was necessary. Now after seeing you again and talking once more, it's completely natural for her to bring up her parents and you should be supportive of her.
If you two want to get back together after all this, you'd need to make sure it is okay with her family. Without their support, it could get real messy. She might start feeling vulnerable and upset if she can't turn to her parents. That wouldn't be the best thing for you two. If her parents still don't want you two together, I'm sorry but you have to respect their wishes.
My advice would be either try and gain back her parents trust, or better yet wait a few more years so things can cool down a little more. I'm sorry you had to go through this heartbreak.
Best of luck, I hope it all works out. [ xlovexx463's advice column | Ask xlovexx463 A Question ]
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