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Losing Confidence :(
I feel really depressed about stuff I don't like and thinking about the future . . .
I'm a really hyper happy person who makes you smile and such but when I get home, I'm depressed
I think and think about the stuff I don't like
I can't tell you though :|
sorry :|
I cry about it and sometimes (well mostly) I tell myself its stupid that I'm thinking about it and such . . . but in my head I'm really confused or I can't even do it right, things I messed up in life
My confidence is starting to drop and if I get sad during school it will affect my friends and family that it'll bother them and I don't want to be a burden or an annoyance.
Tell me what should I do to get theses umm. . . I don't know "worries" affect other people
Thxs if you have me advice I really REALLY appreciate it ! :)
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It is exhausting to be someone you are not. At school you are distracted with friends and fun. When you get home, when you are alone, you have to face reality. You have depression and have a huge emotional burden. People at home have not been supportive of you and they do not realize the depth of your sadness. Talk to them. Talk to a school counselor. Write about it. Get it out. Bottling it up does not work. Whatever it is that you think you can't talk about is making you feel isolated, but you need to realize that you are not alone. Whatever you have been through, someone or a lot of someones have gone through a million times before you. Open up and share with someone you care about or just someone you trust like a teacher. You can and will get through this. People that care about you will not mind being affected by you...that is why you have friends and family...you would do the same for them. You deserve to be cared for, too.
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It sounds like you're thinking about your life too much. Don't stress about the future because it will drive you crazy. Try talking to someone about it. Surround yourself with people that make you happy so that you won't be surrounded by negativity.
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BE HAPPY THE MOST YOU CAN!! hang out with people you get a long with really well. you only have one life. make it the best you can. listen to songs that get you pumped!!!
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I had the exact same problem last year. How old are you? I was 16. It sucks, I know. I still get worried at times about the future and about what other people think of me. Its not something people can help you with. Its more of a self discovery. Just remember that life does go on, and you have to go on with it. And dont be afraid about the future because if you make any mistakes, you can always fix them up later. Just live in the present and enjoy life how it is now because truly, life should not be taken for granted. You'll learn to live with yourself just like I did. And know that you will always have friends, family and random strangers like me that are always willing to help. Listen to these two songs. I know they always get me through difficult times. Both are from Spring Awakening. They are "All thats known" and "the song of purple summer". They have deep meanings.
(stay in school!!!)
Peace,
Jennifer
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