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Keep a friend or not
I have this friend A and we have been friends for 2 years and it was her birthday and i asked her if she was having a birthday party and she said no soi said ok. Then the next day i see her handing out invatations to all my friends except for me. Then when I asked ehr about it she said she was handing them out for her friend. Everyday in science she was talking about her "friends" party party and how it was a mall party. And before her birthday she was talking about having a mall party. I never bought it. Turns out she did have a birthday party at the malland didn't invitebut invited our other friend who was only friends with us for 1 month. SHe knows that I know about her party and is treating me different tring to get me to forgive her. What should I do? Is she still my friend? Why didn't she invit me to her party? I'm really lost.
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You should deff get a new friend because you seem like a nice person and you dont deserve that no one doess. and pluus she lied to youu and friendshipss are all about honesty and trust and she doesnt have both of thoseee. you should talk to her about it thoughhh.
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Why did she lie? Has she told you. There might have been a reason. I don't see one but you never know. Ask her and if you still don't feel good about your relationship with her then she isn't a friend and only wants you when it is convenient and helps her. It is extremely immature and I know you see that. Don't associate yourself with that crap.
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If she lied to you about her birthday party and knew that you knew about it but still didn't invite you, then that is not a friend. Not by miles.
Friends should do the same things together, but to exclude somebody from their party and they know about it is not only rude, but hurtful to the excluded one. And then she tries to get you to forgive her??? That is not friendship honey, it's bullying.
If I had a friend like that, i wouldn't hang around them any longer and find some new friends.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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There is nothing stopping you from still being friends with J. It was A who closed the door on you, not J.
True, A will have some speculations about this, and will probably tell her cousin not to see you. But you did nothing wrong, A was the one who shut you out of her life. Remeber that. A shouldn't stop you and J from being friends, she was the one who ignored you.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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She Played you...she didnt invite you for a reason she gave you the cold shoulder...I would cut her off and move on and have a friend get together without her...
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