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How To Do It?
Got your attention with the title I know haha!
Well I have a few questions.
ONE:
My boyfriend is 16, I'm 14. Not a big age difference and like my mom says it's a matter of maturity and responsibility. Well am I too young to go on a "date"? I've asked before and everyone said no but if so then how can I convince my mom I AM responsible and mature? HELP!
TWO:
T.J. and I have been together three weeks and two days. Every thursday makes a week thats why I know haha! Well I was wondering when should you usually have a first kiss with your boyfriend? I've kissed a guy before but I mean is three weeks too soon? I've known him almost a year in total so we were friends before we started dating.
And if not, who should make the first move? In other words, what's the best way to have a good first kiss? Suggestions appeciated!
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One: You are old enough to go on a date, if you feel ready and sure that you are. And the only way you can prove to your mom that you are mature and responsible is to not do anything stupid haha. Just clean up after yourself before your mom tells you to, listen to her, don't talk back. The little things are what count, like don't lie to her, and do your homework, get good grades, all of that stuff and you're sure to earn her approval. Maybe you should even talk to her about it, in a mature manner and don't raise your voice or get upset if she says something you don't want to hear.
Two: Every thursday, aww cuteee. Anyways, you should usually have a first kiss with your boyfriend when you feel comfortable with him. [in your case, I'm getting the notion that you feel at ease with him, so that could be a sign that you're ready] but if you feel like you're going too fast, don't do it, wait a little longer until it feels so so so right. And since you have known him longer than 3 weeks, having a first kiss will be fine now, but only if you are ready and sure. And the trick to having a good first kiss would be to relax and let it come naturally :] yuh know?
Good luck and any other questions? inbox me. [have fun with loverboy haha ;)]
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ill start with number two. girl you should of done kissed him already! im surprised he hasnt tried to kiss you yet. If it were me the first kiss would of been done and over with. and about number one. just do little things around the house or do things for her to butter her up. Then bring home like a good report card or something and while shes looking at it ask her if you can. Of course there are other ways to do it that is just one example.
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uno: i don't think you're too young, but if your mom thinks so, it's gonna be hard to persuade her to realize that you're not too young. just keep arguing with her when the subject comes up. it might help if you do your chores without being told, do your own laundry, etc., it shows responsibility.
dos: well, actually, i think three weeks is a little long now a days to not have a first kiss, but it all depends on where you grow up, so yeahh. it varies from couple to couple who makes the first move. if you think you want to kiss him, then make the first move. if you're too scared, just wait for "the moment" you'll know it when it comes.
good luck.<3
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