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nervousness
when im around guys, I all of a sudden get really hot and start sweating and that also makes my face all red, and its embarrassing...anyway to fix this even a bit??
Thanks:)
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I know this is going to sound like a load of crap and I know if it seems like it would never work but hear me out please...
Really, you have to hang with guys more often. Best to start with guys you aren't attracted to or ones you know very well and feel comfortable around. Cause your mental tolerance of being around guys is at the moment low, and you need to build up that tolerance by exposing yourself to more guys. And the more often your around them, the less your body and mind is going to react in the way you described.
And being nervous is ok and totally normal. There is nothing wrong being nervous and its ok if it shows, but if you really feel uncomfortable, say you have to go to the bathroom or something and take a breather. And the sooner you start doing this, the sooner you'll gain better tolerance at being around guys. Just be sure to also hang with girls as well...
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Try pretending they are your girl friends. Once you stop seeing them as intimidating, you'll be more comfortable around them. Don't walk up to them immediately thinking you're going to do something embarrassing or stupid. It's okay if you mess up because believe it or not, guys mess up too! (I know, what a shocker lol)
Anyways, I wish you luck!
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you just need to pretend like theyre another girl. just act natural. dont think so much, takee a deep breath before going over and talking to them and just let it flow.
maybe wear a ring so you can figet with that subtley instead of concentrating on the guys around you, that kinda works for me. maybe also carry around a water bottle with you and if guys turn up and come talking to you, just take it out and take a few sips to calm yourself if you get like that. (they wont even notice for what reason you are taking a drink) just make sure you dont choke. but hey, if you do at least you will have something to laugh at...:) hope i helped some
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