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Body issues
Ok so i have some major body issues. I HATE my body! I have no confidence and i hide my body all the time. basically i never wear skirts i always wear jeans and if i wear a cute top i always always wear a jeacket over it. I wear a jacket all year round at the pool infront of my friend i wont even wear a bathing suite without shorts and a shirt. I avoid pictures all together and i just i hate myself. I mean people tell me im beautiful and sometimes i believe it but just its more guys and myself. Its like every guy i like i wont approach or automatically i think well he would never like me so i just depress myself. I always think its better to go in expecting the worst because then i wont get hurt. I'm not going to sit here and say i always get made fun of because i dont i have tons of friends and guys like me but i just i hate myself. I wont wear clothes that show anything basically huge shirts. I just i want to love myself and be confident i want to feel like i dont have to change myself for other people to like me and think im beautiful.I just i really really need help.
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believe in your self a little bit! if you are not confident, then why should other people be confident in you? if you take time and dont just dress in baggy shirts in may draw more attention to your self in a good way. also if you have a great personality some guy is bound to like you =]
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Girl, everyone has insecurities. I have insecurities too, I mean, I'm not the "girl next door" I don't have HUMONGOUS boobs or a "tight" butt, but you have to appreciate you for YOU. I'm only 15 and I finally realized that what you see is what you get, yuh know? We shouldn't be afraid to be HUMAN, it's in our blood :] If you waste your time hiding form yourself, you'll never come out of yuor shell, and the world will look a lot better to you if you just believe that you are great because you are. Our bodies are what makes us special, and if we hate ourselves and our bodies, we're just being ridiculous. So how about this:
who cares?! Who cares what they think? You are beautiful nd if you change yourself, you're just giving into your hatefullness. Loving yourself will help others love you just the way you are, and truthfully, they already do :] Wear cute clothes, show off what your mom gave you and have fun. Life is a rollercoaster, ups and downs, twists and turns, but you just gotta go with the flow and love every minute of it, because life is way too short to be caught up in hating yourself.
Good luckk
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I think every girl is beautiful in her own way. You might not like your body, but people like you anyway, which means you are beautiful whether you choose to believe it or not. If you are confident, you make yourself look better, it's a matter of attitude. If you do not like your body, just do some exercises to improve it some, not drastically though because it would change you as a person and you seem like a great girl. Run a little in your spare time, convince your parents to buy you a stair stepper or something. It would be a great thing to put to use, do some crunches and BE CONFIDENT. The only reason you would have to worry about anyone not liking you is you aren't confident that you can make it. Every guy likes a confident girl, and to nice guys out there, a girls body is not the only thing that they are attracted to. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.
I wish you luck. ♥
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