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flirty type vs. jealous type
so one of my good guy friends likes me, he asked me out last month but i said i didnt want a relationship right now because of my ex boyfriend [that had recently ended] not to mention my guy friends best friend tried to use me. but weve been "dating" i guess, we just dont have the title. last night we went to my cousins birthday party. and he basically ditched me most of the time. i was sick, almost passed out so i really didnt do much besides lay on the couch. but he pretty much stared a hole through my cousin's friend, slapped my cousins butt as a joke right in front of me, and had some other girl crawlin all over him wrestlin around. then everyone left to go ride go carts and he was going to go with them and just leave my sick self there after he found out i wasnt going. even my aunt couldnt believe it because she saw him doing most of this. most of his friends are girls, so hes always givin hugs and has girls comin up to him constantly. ok, so hes the flirty type. thats cool, i can be that way too. but im also the jealous type, and i thought that since me and him are like we are, he would chill some with that kind of stuff. hes so sweet to me and tells everyone im the only one he wants, but what the heck? especially after last night. i just dont know if i could handle being in an "official" relationship with someone like that, and i doubt hed change if we were together because obviously thats his personality. but hes a good, fun guy and otherwise the type i could be with. ARG! any ideas?? 17/f & 18/m
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I don't know. That's a toss up.
Seems kinda like a jerk to be doing all this with other girls if he likes you as he says he does.
Then again, he isn't committed to you, so why should he have to abstain from such behavior?
All I can tell you is that if it were me, also being the jealous type, I would avoid him like the plague.
But that's me.
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His personality shines through.
He's selfish, a jerk, and just plain rude.
If he truly was a 'good guy', would he leave you by yourself at your cousin's birthday party? He couldn't even come and awake you to tell you that he was leaving and offer you a ride home?
Get real.
You're trying to stand up for him, when you really shouldn't be.
Give him the silent treatment. If you really love him, let it go. If it was meant to be, then he'll be back in no time. Trust me when I say this. If he likes you, he'll make the effort.
Remember, sometimes your perceptions of him flirting with you might be the way that he does things with other girls.
Move on.
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