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gahh okay i can't tell..
14.5/f
Okay, well this is partially another 'does this guy like me' kind of question.
I have a guy friend, and my best friend's locker is right next to his. I want him to notice me as MORE THAN A FRIEND. I've always had this issue with guys, whereas they like me as 'just a friend'. However, my problem is that I prefer having guys as friends for a couple of months or so, and then trying to get them to like me as more. My guy friend is kinda shy. I see him talking to a few girls sometimes [maybe once a week], and I'm fine with that. I had a class with him last semester, and we talked all the time. Every time he passes me in the hallway, he raises his eyebrows and says 'hey', and keeps walking. Our classes are scattered all throughout the building, so it's not like we can just walk to class together and talk. However, he had Cooking with me this semester, and my friends told me that they say him looking at me a lot. We would always joke in that class, stuff like that. Now, he transferred to another class, and he's in the class across the hall, literally a few steps away from my classroom door to his classroom door.
I mean, it's great that we're friends and stuff, and we talk quite frequently when I'm by his locker, but how do I get him to slow down and notice me? We might end up going to different high schools [we're in junior high], and I want him to look at me as more than a friend. I'm really shy, so please don't say 'just give him your number, or ask him to hang out', because I also do not want to look desperate.
In depth advice is appreciated. Please actually put some effort into your answer.
Thanks.
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I understand what you are going through. Your happy and confused and sad all at the same time right? You think he likes you a little but something in the back of your head is saying 'are you nuts? look at him'....
Hearing the Just Friends bit sucks and gets annoying. The fact that you said he is raising his eyebrows and is saying hey, yet is a shy boy, interests me. The best way to get a boys attention is eye contact. Hold it for as long as possible. But not to long, we dont want him to think your retarded.. ;)
I will tell you a super cool trick, but it is really difficult to pick up on without looking like a idiot..Its possible but you got to be quick...when he talks to you look at the pupils of his eyes (the black part) they will dialate if he likes you.
Also you could pay attention to his eyes. When you talk does he look at your lips or lick his? that is a sign, but not only that but an invite to a kiss.
-hayley
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hey,
that's a big problem i always had, actually now i have a similar problem with my guy friend right now! i wouldn't tell you to ask him out or get his number either, that's too bold too soon. so it's perfect that your best friend's locker is next to his, go hang around there more often, initiate little conversations with him, let him get to know you better, instead of staring at you during class wondering who you are! mention your hobbies,classes,usual stuff you tell your friends. and yet make it known that he's your exclusive audience, then he'd get the point. you can also go to your friend's locker after school, where chances are he'll be there too, so then just walk out of school together. that can lead to hanging out and talking for longer periods after school's over, and just take it from there. i hope i helped.
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