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Stuck.. friends drama
[[girl, 15]] I've been with this boy for 9 months now. he is in the year above and over a year ago he dated my best mate for like a day. She dumped him and told everyone bad things about him. me and him had been mates since then and we got on really well and 9 months ago we ended up together. Ever since we got together however, my mates have gone weird. They don't know him you see, and he has a bad reputation in the school so hasn't got many friends inside of school. Me and him went through a rough patch a bit recently and ignored each other, and my so called best mate started teling me i was worth more and shouldn't get back with him and calling him a tosser. It really hurt me cos i love him and i don't wanna loose my mates over a guy but I thought she was different. You can't help who you love right, and he has always been there for me and treats me well. Yes, he has made me cry time to time and has got mad at me, but every couple has that right? But like where when i was single i had really good mates and all, having a boyfriend has now made my mates not wanna know me when he is around or calling me names or insulting him. I hate it, i just wish they could see i love him and let me have some peace. He gets picked on in school as it is, the last thing i want is for me to loose mates and for him to get hurt by my mates turning on him. Also when he leaves school this year, I still have a year left and I don't want to be alone. What should I do? I love my guy so much.. but i love my friends too... I have tried to put up with my friends but I keep skipping school cos i hat what it's like when i see him at lunch time cos of what my mates do etc. I always get left out and everything... or i have my mates making digs at my relationship HELP!! I am so stuck and upset and confused..
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uhh...hellooo??? if your friends cant accept who you love they cant accept you! thats all there is to it!!
but...i hate to tell you this, but friends come before boys. but your friends sound like they are being real bitches about it. i'd dump them and go find some new friends who will accept you and your guy. im really sorry this is happening to you.
take care and i hope everything ends up ok. :)
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