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guyfriend vs. soulmate.


Question Posted Thursday February 7 2008, 10:41 am

well, i have this friend. BOB. and bob used to date my best friend. and his best friend used to be my boyfriend. then it all just crumbled when bob and my friend broke up. and they kept getting back together and stuff. and then they just realized that things would never work out again. and his best friend and i were still going out at this time. we'll call him...Bill. well, eventually bill and i broke up. and then bob and my friend...Gal...got back together and started their old rutine of breaking up and getting back together. then they broke up for the 8th and last time. then gal wanted to end our friendship for good. so we're not friends anymore. well, bob, bill, and i are all friends now. like, really good friends. i'd probably hang with them everyday if i didnt live 25 minutes away!! but yeah. i have developed feelings for bob and bill. the past two times i went to bob's house was to see bill. but then bob asked me if i liked him more than a friend. and i said no....but now im rethinking it. and i told him that i *used* to like him...that i dont now because i dont like smokers. and hes a fricken chimney. well, he apparently quit because thats what bill is saying. and im wondering if he quit because of me...? anyways, i still like bill, but i also really like bob. and when we're all together, like all three of us, i like bob a lot more because hes not flirting (i hate being flirted with) and driving me up the wall trying to caress me and stuff. but when im on the phone 1 on 1 with 1 of them, its different. i like bill a lot more on the phone. when bob and i are on the phone, we're just really close friends. valentines day is coming up. and the saurday after v-day, bob, me, my friend cory, and my other friend vicki, are all supposed to go to the movies. i'd invite bill, but vicki doesnt like him because he broke up with me. ^-^ anyways, should i tell him that i still like him on saurday or wait until he asks me out?

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blwinteler answered Thursday February 7 2008, 4:47 pm:
Just tell him. In my experience, it has never hurt to tell a guy you like him. But be sure he is the one you want. It sounds like maybe you aren't so certain.

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