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first hookup?!
k so i met this kid this past summer. and i just started talking to him again. he saw pics of me and says im alot hotter since the summer. and wants to hook up. im thinking about it. ive never hooked up before and im kind of nervous. but im in 10th grade. and havent yet. like. i wanna do it, but its ganna be so akward and whatnot. helpp on like how to, whats expected, etc. should i?! thanks
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Well, if you actually like this guy and want to have some kind of relationship with him (as in girlfriend/boyfriend), then... DON'T DO IT. Hooking up with him will pretty much guarantee that he'll never ask you out or want an actual relationship. You'll just be someone he can use. If he wants the privlege of "making out and stuff like that" with you, then make him earn it... by asking you out and making some kind of commitment. If he likes you, he'll be willing to do that. And making him wait will just make him like and want you more. If he's not willing to do that, then he's just looking to get some. If that's all you want, then go ahead... but don't expect things to go much farther than just hooking up.
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You mean make out, he means get laid, or as close to it as he can get.
Have a little respect for yourself and don't give a guy anything because you've known him for a day and he said you were pretty.
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He's a dickhead, don't do it.
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don't hook up just for the sake of hooking up.
if you do have feelings for him, and if he has feelings for you (other than complete and total lust), then i think it would be fine to pursue something.
warning: "he says i'm a lot hotter since the summer"... i believe he just used a pickup line on you.
i think he sounds like a douche, no matter how attractive he is. you deserve somebody who is going to respect you and not pressure you into anything.
but it's your choice.
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ok first of all: even if you dont mind it, being called HOTT is a NOT. if he says you're pretty or beautiful, then its cool. but yeah i just had to throw that in.
do you wanna hook up with him? ask one of your really good guyfriends if you could practice on him or something. (that might be weird, but i do it. lol)
if you want to, then just do it. it may be awkward, but just let it flow. just get used to the feel of it and stuff and move on from there.
take care...and have "fun". :)))
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