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akward for him?!
OK, i got a new account on advicentaros & im back. I got a small love problem.
There is this guy who i used to go to elemantry school with and we had one class together for 3 years, he went to high school and iswitched elemantry school and we did not talk for awhole year. Now, im in high school and hes in grade 10, we both go to different schools. But me and him and my friend and his friend chill a lot. So, my friend and his friend are going out. But me and him(the guy iwent to school with) had macde out, chilled every week, but than after we made out we chiled couple times and never flirted or kissed. He told my frined how he thinks it akward to go outwith me because he had known me for so long. But now i feel sad and i dont know what to do because ireally like him & i want to go out wiht him, we have many things in common and it would just be right. But, i dotn know what to do because he feels it akward..what should i ido if i still really want him :( ??
Thank you so much
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Well he told his friend that, but it doesn't guarantee anything about if he'll date you or not. People say a lot of things to their friends. A lot of times I say things about my boyfriend to my best friend that she should probably never ever tell him. He may or may not want to date you, but seriously, everyone gets insecure, everyone tells their friends things that may or may not have to do with what they'll do in the future.
My advice: talk to the guy you like. It's a hell of a lot more reliable to trust what then comes out of his mouth than what his friend said he said once God knows when. If he sounds awkward talking about it, then you can worry about the "oh no he won't want to date me!" aspect.
How to bring it up? Mention the making out that happened a while ago. eg. "We used to know each other so well, remember when ___________?" Or "haha you liked me at one point didn't you?" Bring up the subject. Then you can progress with things like "what happened?" "Would you ever still date me?" Other ways to get this message across could also be ways such as inviting him somewhere, just you and him casually, and see how he responds.
As well, as the previous advicer before me mentioned, if you aren't currently flirting with each other, bringing that part of your relationship back would help you get the mood you need to get him dating you again.
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you should just be a little playful around him i mean just joking kinda like flirting but dont let him catch on...just do it every so often. :]
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