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i'm in love.
14/F
In Sept. '06 I dated this kid Jake [he was thirteen I was twelve] for almost a month. There was nothing wrong with him or anything, but I met this other kid while we were dating, his name was Joey, he was thirteen. On 10/10/06 I broke up with Jake and Joey asked me out the same night and I said yes. He had just got out of an almost year long relationship with this girl named Kasey. So in a way I was the rebound, anyway about a month later he and I broke up.. so he could get back together with her.
Anyway within about two weeks I had another boyfriend, yes my rebound. But we broke up cause I still loved Joey, and thats the reason all my realtionships end when I end them. Joey has had three girlfriends since we broke up. He's single right now and so am I.
I still love him over a year later. I even dated his Best Friend to make him jealous. I don't know if I can ever get over him, when he has a girlfriend I just want to CLAW HER EYES OUT. It disgusts me to think of him and another girl dating. But now that he's single I want to tell him I really like him, and probably always will. I don't know if it is the right thing to do. I don't know what to do, does anyone have any advice?
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That would be the best move to make right now. He would then know how you still feel for him and he can understand that. Then (if you want), you could give it another shot with him.
But wait if he's just come out of a realtionship, because coming out of one, then striaght back into another came be difficult for people because they need to get over their last one. That is what went wrong first time round, you were both just out of a realtionship and then all of a sudden your going out with another guy. Take some time off when you get out of a relationship so you can get over the last guy and then move onto the next.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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I definitely think you should tell him. Your feelings for him are obviously causing a lot of problems for you. You need to tell him how you feel (although I wouldn't tell him you love him, just that you really like him) and ask how he feels about you. Until you know, it's going to keep on causing problems for you.
If he likes you too, maybe you two should take it slow and get together.
If he doesn't, at least you know he doesn't, and can try to get over him.
Although I know that's a lot easier said than done, I know how hard it is to get over someone. You have to spend time thinking about him and then make a decision to move on with your life and keep occupied, maybe make some changes and try new things, and hopefully you wil get over him.
If he likes you too though, then congratulations and see it how it goes!
xxx
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If it's going to drive you crazy otherwise, of course you should tell him! Of course, if you're worried about rejection, you could try testing the waters first, for example, flirt with/ tease him and see how he responds, put your head on his shoulder while sitting together, ect. Or you could try asking him out in a casual way and then go with the flow. If you want to be more obvious without outright saying anything, asking him to see a movie with you is a pretty good pointer that you like him, same as giving him chocolates and a card for valentines day. This way, you can show your feelings to him without the potential of being outright rejected.
Of course, now that you're both single, you should definitely definitely do something. good luck =]
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