so yeah theres this guy who sort of has a girlfriend. they went out and broke up but are still talking. and like he met me not to long ago & he said hes fallen for me. & that the other girl he isnt into as much anymore. shes very obsessed with him and always wants to talk to him 24/7. that gets him mad, he wants his own space. they dont hangout much, she always makes excuses wich why she cant. & recently she said shes moving out in march and gettin her own apartment. she asked him to move in with him. hes like shocked. he told me he didnt want to. i mean she doesnt hangout with him a lot and what makes her think living with him will make things work? well shes totally jealous of me becuase she can obv see somethings going on. me and him are hanging out next fridayy. i live kind of far from him. but im moving soon and the good thing is its the town right next to him. he always tells my friends that im the most amazing person the world and we have amazing talks. he tells me he likes me more then the other girl. but im wondering if im just a rebound? & like i dont know im really confused.
this story changes like everyday so if your like really good at giving advice please leave your sn so i can talk to you daily on whats been happening.
THANKS A TON!
HCOloverr22 answered Sunday February 3 2008, 1:25 am: there are guys that do this all the time, they don't want to make critical decisions until someone does it for them. although you two aren't quite "serious" yet, if he talks to his friends and says you're amazing, i think you're getting there. if you want this relationship to really go anywhere, he needs to make up his mind about this girl he's still "talking" to. you don't deserve to be caught in the middle of this, and he should realize that. for your sake, i would suggest you tell him upfront that he either make up his mind about his ex, or you want to give your relationship some space because it's not fair for you. if you think this is the advice you're looking for then we can talk more, i love to do it haha. i'm sort of young though (17), so im not a guru with relationships, but i do know a thing or two.
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