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I can't give advice
hey im 13 years old and in jr high school their is always soo much drama, and one of my friends alana.. she is ALWAYS sooooo sad.
like one time she was like my cousin died and i miss him so muchh
and it was so awkward because i didnt knoww what to say. i didnt know how to make her feel better.
and she would just be like, saying these deep things and how she was so sad and missed him so much and i wouldnt know what to say.. what do i say to make people feel better with things like this??
also.. she always comes to me like "the guy i like ALOT doesnt like me. he told me who he likes and its not me im so sad"
i dont know what to say to that either. and it just gets really awkward.
so how can i give advice on stuff like this betterr?
help =)
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In times like this, the best thing you can do for her is give her a shoulder for support. Just tell her that you are always here for her to listen to her. Let her know that you are sorry she's going through this. I have learned that asking questions to someone to get them thinking of options is the best way to go. This way, if anything were to go wrong, at least you didn't give her the idea, you just showed her other options that are available to her. (Thus, possibly saving your friendship) Good Luck and remember offering moral support can sometimes be better than putting your two cents in anyways.
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well i would suggest you ask yourself what would i want someone to say to me if i were in this situation.I also feel akward when my friends want me to give them advice thats how i help them.It is hard to help them since its really not your problem to deal with but you should just thonk of things to say to her ok hope this helps.
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