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am i bi?
Ok so i know you cant answer the question am I bisexual, but ok im 14, and have a bf, but like when i watch TV, like americas next top model, i feel like, Oh she's hot! not like oh she looks good, or i want to be like her, but shes smokin hot! Kinda like how guys would see a girl, but i also see guys like that. except guys a little more. I dont know its hard to explain, I feel kinda bad, b/c like when im with my bf and his freinds,and they say somethin about someone being hot, i feel like oh yeah she is, but i cant tell them that. especially with my boyfriend being there!!! its one of those things, that i will always keep inside me, even if i know i am bisexual, b/c i want to be "Normal" and not have to tell someone, and freak them out, b/c i know alot of people who hate gays. but then again my aunts are lesbians...
i dont know, its still hard to explain .but is this just a phase im going through, or what?
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it might just be me and the girls i've talked to, but, all girls check out other girls.
i've learned to say yeah she's cute or something like that.
don't feel guilty, i couldn't ever imagine me doing anything with a girl but i can still think they're hot...
you're not the only one
if you make the first comment, your girlfriends will probably be like yeah..
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just because you think girls are hot doesn't necessarily mean you're bisexual. you can look at a girl and think she's hot, but are you actually attracted to her? do you want to do sexual things with her? if you do than you are most likely bi-curious, if not bi-sexual. however, it could simply be a phase. if you aren't actually attracted to the girl and just think she's hot, then you siply have an appreciation for beautiful people.
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It could possibly be a phase, it might not. Some people grow out of it, and others don't. It's all you. I am engaged but I'm not afraid to admit when a woman is gorgeous, and no I'm neither bisexual nor lesbian. I'm just confident enough to say it. I understand how you feel though, when I'm around the girls, I don't say anything but when I'm with the guys, I'll definitely agree with them if I think a female is hott. If you feel attracted to the girl then there may be a slight lesbian or bi-sexual thing going on. I myself am not attracted to them but like I said I'm not afraid to admit the truth. Hope I helped.
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