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help!
One of my closest friends has been really moody with me latly well its been going on for a while now and i can never talk to her because she will either look and be like a piece of shit or answer really sarcasticly to make me feel bad, anything i say is wrong. When i dont talk to her and leave her because i no she'll shove it in my fae she wont bother to talk to me then she will complain when i ask her whats wrong. Im the one thats always in the wrong, and i no i havnt done anything wrong to hurt her or anything. Shes fine with everyone else i really dont no what to do iv tryed almost everything, its just making me really depressed and fustrated. She will be fine when shes talking to the guys she acts like a totally different person all happy. She also was at my house at the weekend shows how much she appriates it!! we get on very well when she isnt moody!! ASRGH
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You should tell her that you're sorry for anything and everything you ever did to make her angry at her and then tell her that you're still willing to be her friend and are willing to leave her alone for a bit if it's what she wants. never push the subject but tell her you have something important to tell her.
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Okay, I have a friend like that too...actually its scary how much my situation is like yours. But, I learned over the years that she used me as her "punching bag" so to speak. I would put up with her shit and let her be mad at me, and I would do everything to make her stop bitching, but she just wouldn't quit it. So, what I wound up doing was not putting up with her shit anymore. When she would be mean to me I would either be mean right back or just shake my head and tell her that she was being immature. And when I saw her around everyone else, she just acted like another person! It was like she was two faced, and it pissed me off. So, I just talked to her about it, told her I wasn't gonna put up with her abuse anymore, and that if she was gonna act like this, she would lose a friend. and thats when she just stopped all of that, I think people like that get carried away with you because they have known us for a while and think that we will put up with all of that bitchyness, but we have to stand up for ourselves and say stop. And that's exactly what you should do. She needs a wake up call, and I hope you are the person to do it. yuh know?
Good luck, and I know how much that sucks :[
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this happens to me sometimes with one of my friends...so i see where your commin from. what id do is try to forget about it or ask one of your other friends t talk to her. good luck! hope i was help
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