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um.. My name is Kanna, and I'm 17?......
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Gender: Female
Location: Massachusetts
Occupation: Student
Age: 17
AIM: KandeiieSawatte
Yahoo: Hiroame
MSN: Itsumo-Suki@hotmail.com
Member Since: January 30, 2008
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I'm getting really frustrated that no guys seem to notice me or like me. My only boyfriends that I've had only went out with me to get to one of my friends and because I seemed 'desperate'. I keep thinking that there's something wrong with me. Is there anything that I can do to get guys to notice me in a positive way? Besides the usual 'be more outgoing'... (link)
Be yourself, those jerks who are using you aren't worth your time.

if there is someone you like though, maybe you should take extra time into how you dress to look more special? spray bodyspray? act polite but still yourself, it'll be noticed trust me.. but a guy who can't see that you're a wonderful person is stupid and not worth your time.


I live in an apartment on the bottom floor, and it is realllly hot in here. It can get very bad especially when the dryers on.
Well the other day, we moved my bed to the other side of the room, and found this warm wet spot in the carpet. And now occasionally i'll be walking into my room and i'll feel it there again! It's really gross, and it's making my room smell.
What can be causing it? (link)
You should probably for starters define the smell?
and if it's there often even after you've tried to clean it, maybe you should tear out the carpet and check because it may just be a spot now but it could be worse later on.


i havent really asked to see what anybody else does, i just started doing this own my own. i shaved down there about one every week. like on a friday. i shave it completely. is this normal? what do most people do? i have a bf and i have a feeling that we're gonna end up doing something soon...so i mean, i don't want him to be shocked because i do it differently than everybody else does. would he be like ew if its completely shaved? and what about if it's completely shaved but there's a little stubble all over. umm i like to feel clean ya know. so yeah... ? (link)
haha it doesn't really matter, if you like shaving down there go ahead, nothing to be embarrassed about? Everyone has their own preference about it but if you like doing it then that's ok because it's not weird and you shouldn't have to feel awkward about it.


Recently i visited my cuzins house and they had bought dance dance revolution for the playstation 3 i think it was. I really love that game and its great excersise! I was just wondering is it available on dvd like for tv or something that isnt a game system. If so, where would i be able to purchase this in Manhattan?

thanks for any help, in advance. =] (link)
they have stepmania where you can buy the mat that hooks up t your computer? look up stepmania on youtube.com usually in the memo they'll have a link to the site


for about a month i've been doing lunges to increase my butt size and push ups to increase my upper body strength. i'm only 110lbs (16/f, 5'7") and all of my strength is in my legs, i have NO upper body strength, and i have no butt what-so-ever. i was doing about 15 push ups a day and 20lunges a day and i've been doing this for a month and i haven't seen any increase.

how long is this going to take to see a difference?
~i've also been drinking these milk drink things that have extra protein in them to help me gain weight.

i guess this is a two part question so the other part is:

i've been about 110lbs for a year and a half now. i have a rediculously high metabolism and if i don't eat constantly i can loose a lot of weight which i dont want to do. for example, i'll wake up and be 102lbs, eat breakfast(cereal and toast), lunch(sandwich, soda, chips, maybe ice cream) and dinner(large plate of whatever is for dinner that night) and then i'm constantly snacking all night. before i go to bed i weigh myself and i'll be anywhere from 108-110lbs. go to bed, wake up and weigh myself and i'll be 102-104lbs again. its very frustrating and hard to gain weight when i lose it while sleeping! my new years resolution is the oposite of most americans these days. i want to gain 10lbs by the end of the year but i dont know how. i'd be willing to gain muscle as long as i didn't turn like super buff.

any help for my questions? (link)
You should look up the different ways to do push ups because depending on how you position your hands it works on different areas of the body.

for your um... rear end problem...

I suggest playing the game DDR or Dance Dance revolution for the PS2, that works out your legs and shaped your butt like you'd never believe


18/f
majorly overweight
sadly, considered obese
i'm 5'5" and weigh 203 pounds...
yea, it makes me real sad when i see that
things is, i don't really look all that fat
but it is there =(
does anyone know of how i can fix this problem?
like steps to take to becoming healthier
and more fit/tone like all over? (link)
for starters you need to eat healthy, no fattening foods like cake or ice cream you should eat Fruits and vegetables

always stretch at least 10 minutes before you workout, and I suggest running on a treadmill for an hour not walking, RUNNING after you finish working out you should stretch another 10 minutes, and then drink some, crunches and push ups should be done straight after you run and then stretch.


please i need to get a diet that works fast, obviously not like ...10 kg in a week hahaha but that it last mmm 3 weeks .. a month?? most i need its like to specify what to eat on breakfast snacks meals and dinner cause im at school all day until night so i dont have much time to go and just workout and im not trying to loose impossible weight haha which frustrate me cause i dont wanna loose thaat much but still i can't do it im 123 pounds and i want to loose 15 pounds because of my height (5'15)thank you :) (link)
well instead of eating fatty foods you should eat fruits and vegetables. whenever you get the chance you should run because running helps you lose a lot of weight if you do it right!

NEVER go on one of those pill diets, they make you gain more if you don't exercise too. and if you're really serious about if and aren't very good at running you should buy training weights and wearing them(ankles and wrists) they make it harder to go up the stairs and such so it'll be a workout no matter where you go! (Note: never run with ankle weights on it'll mess up your knees)
(Note: Always stretch before and after running or any kind of workout)

sleeping more also is supposed to help you lose weight because you won't be tempted to eat if you're asleep!

only eat the essentials not things like ice cream or cake (junk food in general)

If you can eat healthy all week then on the weekends should be ok to treat yourself a little


One of my closest friends has been really moody with me latly well its been going on for a while now and i can never talk to her because she will either look and be like a piece of shit or answer really sarcasticly to make me feel bad, anything i say is wrong. When i dont talk to her and leave her because i no she'll shove it in my fae she wont bother to talk to me then she will complain when i ask her whats wrong. Im the one thats always in the wrong, and i no i havnt done anything wrong to hurt her or anything. Shes fine with everyone else i really dont no what to do iv tryed almost everything, its just making me really depressed and fustrated. She will be fine when shes talking to the guys she acts like a totally different person all happy. She also was at my house at the weekend shows how much she appriates it!! we get on very well when she isnt moody!! ASRGH (link)
You should tell her that you're sorry for anything and everything you ever did to make her angry at her and then tell her that you're still willing to be her friend and are willing to leave her alone for a bit if it's what she wants. never push the subject but tell her you have something important to tell her.




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