ok well im having a sweet 16 in february and well im sortve stressing about the invites because of the fact that not everyone is invited from my school and i dont want the word to get out about the party because then those who werent invited will plan to crash it or talk shitt and i really dont need that stress right now im going through enough already and i just dont know what to do i cant just invite everyone but i dont know how to go about doing this quiet if itll get out eventually ughh some one whos been in my situation please help or tell about what happened after wards
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Brandi_S answered Tuesday January 29 2008, 8:54 am: Don't fret. Like said before me, invite those who are important to you- folks who are actually your friends.
I also agree that if people are going to talk, they are going to talk. Not much you can do about it but realize they WILL get over it.
Party crashers? Let your folks deal with that. If people start busting in on the party and trying to ruin things, your folks will see to it they are escorted out, one way or another.
No worries, alright? This is something you are supposed to enjoy, not something to get your blood pressure all up.
KristinaKinesthetic answered Tuesday January 29 2008, 12:36 am: I'm afraid you can't stop gossip- those who aren't invited might hold it against you, so make sure to invite everyone that's important to you.
As for the party crashers: tell the people you give the invitation to that they MAY NOT bring a friend unless they clear it with you first. Keep a list of everyone you invite and make sure people know that if they are not on the list, they will not be allowed at the party.
Hope that helped, & have a happy, unstressful sweet sixteen. :] [ KristinaKinesthetic's advice column | Ask KristinaKinesthetic A Question ]
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