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Truthfull.
OKay, me and my best friend got in this really big fight over the one thing we said we would never fight on, which is BOYS.
Well she has a boyfriend, and I don't and I could careless because this kids a fag. Literally.. he likes it up the poophole! Well when she asks me for ym advice and I tell her yehh he would probably bend over for a man she started telling me how he said he loves her. and how she hasn't said it. And somehow we got in a fight about me being right all the time.
AND I AM!
Is it my fault noo.. and shes telling me to stay out of her relationship hmm well if she didnt place it in my hands I wouldnt have to. but she came to me for help! and I toldher what I thought. and she gets mad at me... well she takes my word as gold. And im the same age as her. Im like her frkn role model!!! I dont wanna be.
So I told her this... she didnt appreciate it.
What do I do?
[[its alot more complicated then this but fuck it.]]
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I pity you LITTLE GIRL.
You have a whole lot to learn.
You are a child and already know it all.
You should be humbly asking advice rather than trying to gather support for your bullying.
Grow up.
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I'm sorry, but you sound a little jealous and a little bratty. She really isn't your best friend, because nobody would ever use derogatory terms regarding sexual orientation against her best friend's boyfriend.
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A guy is not literally a "fag" because he "likes it up the poophole". In fact, a lot of guys do enjoy this (giving anal sex) because it's tighter than the vagina. The only way your friend's boyfriend would be gay (let's refrain from derogatory terms, here) is if he didn't like girls at all, and that, frankly, is something only he would know.
When your friend comes to you for help on one issue (say, she doesn't know how to respond when her boyfriend tells her he loves her), she has a right to get mad if you tell her irrelevant, factless information such as "yeah he'd bend over for a man." She's coming to you for advice and you are judging her.
I'd suggest to lay low around her for a while, and not to go yelling things like "I"m always right" and "you're boyfriend's gay". When she asks for your advice, try to put yourself in her shoes, even if you don't particularly like the guy. If you are genuinely worried that her boyfriend is gay and that she's in trouble for this reason, you could express your concerns in a friendly way then back off. However if you keep pointlessly declaring this to everyone, you're just hurting her for no reason whatsoever (and getting between them).
If you don't want to be your friend's role model, and don't want to listen to her problems with her boyfriend, just tell her this... but not in a mean way. If you told her this in a mean way after dissing her bf you might want to apologize and learn to think a tad more before you say anything else to her.
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