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Forgiveness .
Well me and my boyfriend have almost been dating for a year , the summer of 07 [ summer that just past ] i cheated on him and we worked things out and we were fine . Well i thought after all this time he would have forgave me completly. But come to find out he says he just cant , i know i hurt him real bad and stuff but i mean its almost been a year and he still hasnt forgive me . It hurts because he doesnt trust me at all , but in his heart he knows id never do it again . I need help so i cant get our WH0LE relationship good .
Any help ? iv said all i could say to him ''/
thanks .
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Its going to take a LONG time to rebuild his trust. I had the one i love and have been with for a while cheat on me. And it doesnt feel good. I know how your guy feels. But cheating is the worst possible thing you can do. Though i know my guy wont ever do it again its still hard to trust him. But if i were you id try to just keep working on being the best girlfriend you can be. The fact that he stayed with you just shows that he wants to be with you so dont take that for granted! Do what you think is right and keep reasuring him that u love him(if you do) Guys need reasurence on this kind of stuff. But like i said its going to take a while for that trust level to get back up so dont expect it to go back up in the blink of an eye. Just keeping working on yalls relationship and you should be fine.
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Guess it wasn't a very bright idea to cheat on him now was it.
Hey I'm not the one cheating on my boyfriend, thanks.
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Well hun, theres the problem. Once someone in a relationship has cheated on their partner there is a bond of trust that has been broken and no matter what it cannot be repaired. I give him credit for being able to work things out with you in the first place, because that was a very big step on his part. What you have to realize is that although he says that he cannot frogive you, in order for you guys to still be together, he has had to have forgiven you to some degree. Also, put yourself in his shoes and how you would feel. There are just some things that people can do that no matter what, the other person can work through it, but will never be able to fully forgive the other person. Cheating is one of those things. The best thing that you both can do is keep communication as open as possible and slowly work to rebuild the trust that was once between you. This is a long process and it will be hard, and it the trust you guys nce shared may never be the same as it was before, but you can always try, I hope this has helped and dont hesitate to contact me if theres anything else I can do
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