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what to do...?
ok, so i have these 2 friends (lets call them Daina and Crystal) whenever i like this guy, of course i tell Daina...at first shes like eww or awwe (the regular reaction) but then a while later i hear from Crystal that Daina "all of a sudden likes him to" ....is Daina TRYING to make me mad or something?!?! and then i have to keep it s secret that i know because im actually not supposed to know...should i stop telling Daina who i like??
PS and sometimes it happens to me but involving other friends...
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Sometimes when one of my friends will mention a guy that I used to think was disguating, I start to wonder what they see in him, and once I see it, I think hey that kind of makes sense. sometimes two people with common interests like the same guys, and that seems to be happening in this case. If you really have the intention of going after a guy, then maybe you shouldnt tell her, but if you just liek a guy, then whats the harm in both of you liking him?
I would talk to daina though. Find out if its just a coincidence or whats going on. If you dont ask you cant make assumptions.
If it happens to you with other friends, well then its probably either a coincidence, or you like guys who everyone seems to like. You and your friends probably just have similar taste in guys, and thats not always a bad time. A bunch of my friends and I used to have this major crush on this guy once, it was fun gossiping about him, it was an understanding taht none of us would actually ever go after him, but it was still fun.
Try and not let this go to your heart, I'm sure Daina doesnt mean to do this, u cant always control who you like, but if she is, then talking to her will hopefully help.
You know, one thing my friend did once when she had this issue, was that she would tell her friend that she liked a random guy and she waited to see if she heard from someone that her friend liked him. its always a way to test it, though asking her would be optimal.
I hope that helps you solve your problems, good luck!
Love ya,
Angie91
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Well this could have a whole bunch of other reasons to it but it may be because your friend just starts noticing him because you like him. So once she sees why you like him she starts liking him. That could be one case. Daina could also be trying to get a guy before you or something like that but I don't know the person so I don't know what she is like. Maybe you should stop telling her who you like but thats your decision. It depends on what you think of her and what your trust is like with her too.
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