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mad boy
hey,
so this guy and i we are close and like each other loads but i recentley heard that he slept with 2 other girls and i ignored it for a few days. But this morning we were talking and then something made me mad and i just flipped and told him about it. He was soo upset because i was like 'am i just another girl to you?' and then i left his house. He texted back saying 'he could not believe the rumours that were not true and how i could believe that i was just another girl'...he then texted back defending himself against the accusations. i left him a message apologising and then a text, but he won't pick up, i rang him once and my best friend rang him once. What should i do if he doesn't ring back??
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Hey!
Well the biggest issue here is that if you cant trust him enough to not believe the rumours you here then that has to say something. I know rumours can be convincing, but sometimes you read more into them than you would think, and in this case you tried to ignore the rumour, but something made you bring it up when you were angry. That means that something deep inside you is shouting "hey! don't trust him!" And even if you are sitting there thinking, hey I trust him, well maybe you think you do, but still, there has to be a reason you said that, and not just because you were angry. if there wasnt a part of you that believed it, you would have been able to let it go, but you telling him in anger, was your mind's way of getting the answer when it was dying to know.
The other part of this message that I am seeing that is a red flag [but this time a good one:)] is that he said: "how could you believe that you were just another girl". That means he cares about you! If you tried calling him and he didnt respond, give it a day or two, let him cool down and get a grip on the situation, and if he hasnt called then try him again.
If that doesnt work, then you can either, wait and see how it goes, or you can try and do something to show him that you feel bad. write him a note or an email or something. Try and do something to show him taht you care about him.
I hope that helps a bit, this is a tough situation, but I know you can get through it. Just be patient and let him come to terms with it all too okay? Good luck! I know you'll figure it all out,
love ya,
angie91
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go back to his house, say sorry and that you really care about him and you don't want him to hurt you, also say that if you hear another stupid thing you'll ask him about it before you assume its true,
if he won't talk to you at his house, go to the places he normally goes and try to talk to him there ex: the pizza place, a 711, the drug store etc.
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