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ummmm wtf?
14/f
ive been best friends with this girl for 4 years. we do everything together. we are on the phone everyday and there are no boundries to what we tell each other.
we entered high school in the fall, and we both met new people and made new friendship, which was expected..but there was definitly something up between us.
then, in october i realized i had a HUGE crush on her. she already knew i was bi but she didnt know who i liked. i tired to not let her know, i knew shed get wierded out.
we grew apart, then together then apart then together and recently we got together and we got alittle tipsy. the other person there knew about my feelings for her, and warned me before that i might tell her,but i told her not to worry about it.
i dont remeber much of that night but last week the girl who i have a crush on handed me a note.
i opened it and read bascially this: im sorry but i dont want to be friends anymore.i felt like you were hitting on me when we last partied. you havent treated me very nicly lately and i just dont want to be friends.
i really dont undersatnd because she came out as bi to me awhile ago and it kinda endeed but i thought out of everyone i am friends with, she woukld understand the most.
just can someone give me some insight on what she was thinking???
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well did she TELL you she was bi?
Because if youre assuming your assumptions cant always be right, you know?
so maybe this was scaring her,maybe your coming on too strong.
That was mean of her to say that she just didnt want to be friends, instead of passing a not like that, she should have talked to you about it. Do you think you were hitting on her?
because if you were trying to then that may be a problem.
Just...talk to her, see what happens, you guys can always still be friends
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