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Valentines Day What Do I get - Owe Her Well I'm 19, my girlfriend is a really beautiful 22 year old woman, and since the past month we've been having an excellent relationship: for instants we do things together that she told she never did with anyone else before. Now I don't want to get into what things that they are, but just trust me, because I'm not one for BS.
Now the problem is that valentines day coming up, and I have no idea what to get her, perhaps besides just her favorite kind of roses (tri fade red/org/yel). The only intel I have from her side is that she wants to eat somewhere, and she will be wearing a special dress. I also neglected to mention that in accumulation to this all we have agreed to try, and have sex for the first time finally on that day before we rape each other so what should I get and do for her?
Please consider that we've only been dating for a month, but also that I've known her for a very long time, and always liked her, even more now.
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You can never go wrong with jewelry! It's something she can use and keep forever, and whenever she wears it, she'll think of you. Since you've only been together a month, it doesn't have to be anything super expensive. Maybe a necklace, earrings, or bracelet. Take a good look at the kind of jewelry she wears, to get an idea of what she might like. ]
If you're planning on having sex, & if its on your bed, then get rose petals & candles. Put the rose petals on ur bed, dresser floor, etc. & put the candles around your room too. It'll make it really romantic (: Or for a gift, you can buy her lotions, perfumes, body sprays, bubble bath stuff, a necklace, or any type of jewelry. I think you'll find some reall cute things in Victoria's Secret too. Good Luck (: ]
if you've known her for a long time, you must know at least one of her insecurities. I would plan on using v-day as a day to attack that in the most loving way possible. for instance, my biggest insecurity is my dry skin (especially in the winter) and a perfect valentine's day would be some sort of spa evening with a bubble bath and oil massages and nice feeling things of that nature. for gifts, I'd like to get expensive soaps and lotions in scents that I particularly like.
what I mean is that even though valentines day is a hugely special day, you don't have to do anything particularly special. a romantic gift is a feel good gift from someone you love, not a stupid bear or candy. if you're in college, a nice dinner out somewhere is good because college food is terrible. if she's always on her feet, give her tons of foot massage coupons and a kit to pamper her feet. be practical and show you're attentive and it will surely be a good day. ]
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