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should i feel bad
ok my two best friends Becca and Cody started dating and i got a call from Becca and she asked me to call Cody to break up with him for her and i started balling bc i love Cody more then any one in this world like i tell him everything! and hes like babe its not your fault plz stop crying and im like how can i do this to u Cody your lie my best friend!and hes like i know and hes like well im going to go ok?and im like mkay love you and hes like love you two.
so should i feel bad and if i shouldn't how do i stop feeling bad?
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i know that must have been really hard for you, hes your best friend...if you really werent comfortable with breaking up the relationship for your friend, then dont...just say "Becca, i think that you and cody need to work this out for yourselves." just be there for him right now, and he will do the same for you. its not your fault it didnt work out, and you two are still the best of friends.
GoOd LuCk!!!
dont worry, itll be okay! :-)
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Okay, take a few deep breaths and let it out. It's okay, it's not like you were the one breaking up with him, and your friend Becca was just being a coward [so childish] but you really shouldnt feel bad because you were doing it out of love for Cody...even though Becca should have told him herself [no offense to you at all]
Cody was probably thankful you told him this because you were looking out for him and protcting him, and its not your fault no matter what anybody tells you or how you feel about the situation.
If you want to stop feeling bad, then just stop because none of this is your fault and just because you told Cody that Becca was breaking up with him, you were just being a good friend to Becca and Cody. So stop being so hard on yourself, it is going to be okay.
Feel better! It's okay! :]
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Why on Earth did your "friend" make you do her dirty work?
Asking someone else to break up with THEIR boyfriend is absolutely ridiculous and you should have said no, told her to suck it up and do it herself.
You shouldn't feel bad. Cody knows it's not your fault. Although he's just lost his girlfriend, he knows you're there for him. After all, you told him he's like your best friend and you love him.
You'll stop feeling "bad" as time goes on. Remind him you'll always be there and if he ever needs anything.. just give you a call.
In future, don't get involved in things like this. Just say no. Because at the end of the day, it wasn't your relationship and although you love them both, it has nothing to do with you and you shouldn't have been made to feel bad.
People need to learn to do things themselves.
I hope you feel better soon.
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