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Erection Problems and Frenulum Tear
My bf and I have been together for a bit over 2 years. We are both 20 years old. We have had a really good and healthy sex drive up until about 6 months ago. He used to be able to have sex multiple times in one night, even after he orgasmed. Now he can go once, maybe, and then that is it. And when we do have sex, sometimes he has trouble keeping his erection.
Also, recently he tore his frenulum (the skin that goes from the shaft of the penis to the head - he is uncircumsized) during sex. So now it is even more difficult to have sex, if we have it at all because it is not fully healed yet.
I am a very sexual person and this is very frustrating. We have been doing other things but it is getting old and I don't know what to do. I want to bring it up but I can tell it bothers him a lot when I do. Our sex lives just aren't the same and I feel I am too young to be so bored in my sex life already. I have only had sex with him and am not interested in just breaking up with him and going out just for sex. Any advice on what we can do? I just don't know how long I can put up with this.
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The other advice was dead on, except for one thing. You say you have a really good relationship, but are questioning whether you can handle this problem? If you truly love him, you would realize that there are ups and downs, no pun intended, in a relationship and needs support and respect. It seems as if you have neither for him. I would suggest above all else, to be there for him. He obviously needs help, but you don't want to see what is wrong with him, only what it is doing to you. Seems a bit selfish.
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Men, especially young men, are very uncomfortable talking about their sexual problems. I suggest that you talk to him, embarassed or not it will help him in the long-run, and ask him to go to a doctor. There may be an underlying problem that can be much worse than you think.
It is also very possible that he may have ED, erectile dysfunction, YES, young men can have ED. The following is an article about ED in young men, [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
You really need to be persistent about him seeing a doctor. I would have recommended that he go to a doctor when his frenulum tore because they would have given him medicine to help the healing process quicken.
Good luck and I hope you can convince him to go to the doctor.
Also, as for the sexual frustrations, I suggest you go to this site, [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
It's great, ;)
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ask him to go to a doctor, if he loves you he'll do it, tell him to explain to the doctor whats been going on and maybe he can help
and in the mean time get some sex toys for both of you, you can order them online as to not deal with the humiliation of getting them in person,
you are totally right though, u shoulsdn't be bord this early on with sex
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