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how to make them trust me
hey i have been with a guy for 2 years and my parents say they trust me and they know him well but they will not let us hang out alone. and we arent even going to 3rd yet so i dont know if they think we are worse than we are but what are some things i can say to them to make them allow us to hang out alone?
15/f
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In all honesty, there might not be anything you can say to them to make them let you be alone together. The truth is, it has nothing to do with you as a person or your boyfriend as a person. It's more to do with raging hormones and the two year-long relationship.
The problem is that you are now in that nice stage of your relationship where you will be very comfortable with each other and with hormones kicking in, you could very easily get carried away. This is no reflection on you as a person, but more an objective point about most people of either gender between the ages of around 15 and 19. It is extremely easy to get carried away and end up doing something your parents will regret!! It's not that they want to ruin your fun. It's just that with the very high teen pregnancy rates and with any potential you currently have for a future, they want to protect you against making a mistake that could potentially take your bright future away from you.
I know it might not seem this way, and you might think this very bad advice, but the best thing you can do for the moment is to tell your Mum (if you feel comfortable) that you are not having sex and do not intend to for a while yet, and until you turn 16 at least, do as your parents say. Ultimately, they will eventually give you some freedom if you hold off until you are of legal consenting age.
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You are 15, I dont think you are old enough to be alone with a boy,nonetheless go to 3rd place, or even 2nd for that matter.
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try saying this...
"If you really trust me then you should trust my judgement"
and then say something like
"you should know that i would never do anything stupid, and if anything ever went wrong i would call you and tell you!"
hope i helped!
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