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I feel like this is so confusing
I don't know where to start....My mom has this so called boyfriend for seven to eight years. I hate him!! He is soo moody!! He'll be nice and then he gets fricken crabby. Once he yelled at me for not liking strawberry juice and not finishing it. Then after I got out of the shower last night I was drying my hair when I stopped he was yelling my name so I go down and it was the telephone so I went to the regular phone then he yelled at me because it was his cellphone!! All these things made me cry!! Then sometime when hes nice which is once a month, I walk by him he'll spank my butt or put me on the couch and tickle me! I don't feel comfortable when he does this. Sometime he'll grab me by the private and put me over his shoulder and carry me around. I hate that! Then when we are fighting in the nice way I feel like he's putting me in sex positions. I tell my mom for him to stop but he keeps doing this! I want to move to my grandma who hates him too but I don't want to leave my mom. If I do move out this would be the second child who moved out to grandmas because of him. My family is not a big fan of him! This is so confusing to me!!Help!! Please!
13/f
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This may sound a little harsh, but honestly, if your mom doesn't care enough to make this stop, then you should not care if she loses another child. Your mom needs to understand what's important in life and that is NOT her boyfriend. Her children should be the most important thing and that includes you. It may also include letting you live with your grandmother. You should start thinking about what is going to make you feel safe and happy instead of what is going to make you feel sick, uncomfortable, and disrespeted. NO MAN has the right to make you feel uncomfortable, no matter what the age.
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Of course you wouldn't want to leave your mom but if he is putting you in positions that make you feel uncomfortable then you should talk to your mom about it privately and tell her you want to go to your grandma's. Someday your mom will realize how is acting and make her decisions. So if you want to go to your grandma's then it will probably be the best decision.
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You have to do what makes you comfortable, and if that means escaping your mom's boyriend and moving to your grandma's house, then so be it.
No one should be in that kind of position where they feel uncomfortable, confused, hurt, awkward, and pressured. Get out while you can and make the right decision, maybe your mom will come to her senses someday, but right now you can't be her keeper by sticking around and being in a situation that you hate.
Good luckk
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