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FRIEND SHIP DOWN FALL
I have a this B.F.F um lets just say her name was Yhauns and um almost every single year she JUST has to play up on me and dose not want to talk to me,be around me,have any thing to do with me,be my friend
or ANY THING.
Its like SHE has a problem with me being my self.The 1st time this happen to our friend ship was when i was a year 7 starting intermediate she was at primary and was a year 6. I was a year older but that did not stop us from being B.F.F's
we were B.F.F's ever since i was 3 and she was 2 she was my next door neighbor.
Once a year she either starts a rumor,did not talk to me or she totally blocks me out like a brick wall.In 2006 she ignored me and did not want any thing to do with me [maybe it was because of her friends at primary ?.
2007 she had claimed and started a rumor about me it was the starting of a new year and we had started school by now she was a year 7 and i a year 8 it was in the middle of camp term 1.
it was raining and my tent was leaking she had decided to go and sleep with her other same aged friends while i looked around out in the rain i soon had settled with her and a group of people that i didn't know at all.the next morning i had to put my tent down ALL BY MY SELF how did you think that made me feel. the day before i had introduce Yhauns to a new group of friends of mine.
She had taken off because i would int hang out with that day on. I had figure that she did int like me because i choose to hang out wit a less cooler person named Layal she had no friends and i stepped in to play that part in her life. because she was a year 7 i no longer have only a little bit of contact with her.
Yhauns later on that day had set a rumor claiming a lie and it was that i had deliberately thrown her clothes in to the near bye bush but she had no alibi or witness that i actually did. It was a LIE another way of her saying she did int want me as a friend. she took me back after 2 terms of TORTURE & ABUSE.
Now 2008 she has done it AGAIN! not like 2007 not like 2006 but in a whole new way with no rumors or avoiding BUT NAME CALLING !!. Is Yhauns afraid of the truth in friend ship or is this part of her pathetic ways in life.
WELL WHAT I THINK IS SHE CANT BE FINDING TRUE HAPPINESS WITHIN OUR FRIEND SHIP.
HELP I MAY SEEM REALLY DESPERATE WITH THIS BUT IS IT ME THATS IN THE WRONG
I DO FORGIVE AND FORGET ABOUT THE BAD THINGS
OR IS SHE BRAKING MY CONFIDENCE SLOWLY ??
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It sounds like your "BFF" doesn't know how to be a friend. I don't know her, but has she had a hard childhood? What is her family life like? If so, this may have made her one of those people that doesn't know how to be friends with a good person, which it sounds like you are truly a good, kind, forgiving person. And one day she is going to look back and regret how she treated you.
But listen. No matter what her problems are, you DO NOT deserve to be treated that way. It's been going on long enough and you have given her many chances at friendship. And she seems to only be getting worse.
If you can, I would suggest you try and talk to her and let her know that what she has done over the years has really hurt you and you cannot be friends with her anymore. If she refuses to listen, just walk away and go on with your life. It may be hard for you to do because it sounds like you really care about her, but you need to think about what you need. You deserve to be happy with your friends. So get out there and make friends that will treat you like a friend.
And you never know. She may miss you so much that she may change.
Hope this helps.
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