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im to shy
okay so there is this guy, he is like a skater and stuff. so my friend is like BEST FRIENDS with him. they always are hanging out and i always hang out with her so once and awhile we all hang out. by the way his name is david. so i am pretty shy, especially around guys. like, im really shy right when i get to no someone, then after awhile i am like the most outgoing person in the world, i am so crazy i do everything and you can't get me to shut up. i no there is probably alot of questions like this, but i really need help. so my friend that is his best friend is talking to him abouot me, and she knows that if i opened up to him, he would like be in love with me. like we have the same exact personalitys, once i open up. i just can't seem to do that though, it's so hard, especially with guys! so, basically my question is, i need to no how to get myself to not be so nervous and just chill out and be myself, and once i do that, i need good ways to flirt with him. thank you!!!
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Well if youre going thru a friend to get to a guy and your personalities are as similar as you say they are then you need to cut out the middle man and try talking to him over the internet, like maybe myspace, msn, or AIM. Then you can slowly graduate to phone calls and talking in person. If this guy makes you feel like this, then chances are you make him feel the same way. He's probably nervous too. But if he's not then try those methods that i mentioned earlier.
Cliche Time: Just be yourself
Try this too: Try talking to him like he is one of your girlfriends, minus the girl "topics".
Hope that helps...
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First find common interests you can talk about. If you have interests you both can talk about then you will have longer conversations. Everyone gets nervous when they really like someone so the key is to not show it. A way to get rid of this is by breathing before you speak to him. Continue to say in your head "I can do this". If you are in an area where there is alot of people it makes you less stress becasue there are people all around. Have you friend start up the conversation about soemthing you and the guy would ahve in common. She will ask your opinion. You will give it and he will say "yeah I totally agree". After you guys speak take a small breathe to relieve any extra stress in your stomach. It perfectly normal to feel the tension. Try stretching before too becasue it will help relax your muscles.
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