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Last summer my boyfriend and I of 4 years broke up. I was crushed, but it was for the best. I'm still in love with him. He has a girlfriend now, but we still talk. We talk as friends. But the other night he talked to me about "us." We talked about how much we missed each other, the memories we made, and he told me he still loved me. I don't think he is playing me because he's one of those that don't mess around. Then two days ago after school we hung out all day. It was like old times again. It was the best feeling in the world to tell the truth. Well last night we had a basketball game and a guy I once had feelings for was there. He talked me into going to a party with him. My ex wasn't there. Well the guy I have feelings for and I kissed. It was nice, but now I'm so confused. Since my ex has a girlfriend and I had a good time with another guy does that mean I should move on? I still love my ex, but I'm worried we aren't going anywhere. What should I do?
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I know you dated this guy for a way longer time than me and my ex did (We dated about a year and a month) but believe me, finding a new guy was one of the most satisfying ways that helped me get over him. If you know for a fact your relationship with your ex isn't going anywhere, its time to open up your options. If he really wants to get back together, he'll end it with his current girlfriend. If he doesn't, than you have to make the choice whether you believe in waiting for a guy to come to you. Try to open up your options and start thinking about moving on. I'm sorry you have to go through all of this :(
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You should stay with the guy you're with. A lot of times the whole "going back to the ex" thing doesnt work. You relive a lot more of the bad times than the good. You might have had good times and you still can but just as friends. See if you can muster up more feelings for the guy that you are with.
If you still like your ex and you break up with your current b/f, but then when you go back to your ex and it doesnt work out, you'll be out of a b/f. But if you wanna have some time to your self then go for it.
Cliche Time: Do as your heart desires.
Hope that helps...
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