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11 months, girlfriend
ive been going out with my gf for 11 months.(15 yrs old) mostly things are good and then theres sometimes we have our fights, but who doesnt? i will admit im a little insecure at times and times when i get insecure are the times i wished i was single again when i have no one (girlfriend) to worry about. their parents like me my parents like her. its really hard to explain but for the most part everythingg is good but i guess when i start to think i miss the single days. should i be feeling any of this when mostly things are so good? if anyone my age has had a long relationship like this and broke up please explain...i also feel like i shouldnt break up because its been so long. any help will do, thanks.:-)
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Before I answer this question, I have to say that I'm pro relationships. But with an unbias opinion, I would say that you're young. You're not supposed to know what you want at this age. You have to follow your heart on this one. If you break up, that means that you don't get to cuddle with her, smell her hair, all the little things you appreciate would be gone. Put your insecurities aside for a minute. Would you honestly be happier single? If you answer yes, then you know what to do. My personal opinion; once you've been with someone for so long, something small like an insecurity [and that is small in the long run] isn't worth breaking up over. It's normal to miss being single. As human beings we always want what we don't have, right now you don't have the freedom of a single 15 year old. You just have to make your decision based on your happiness, not what she wants, not what your friends tell you. Once again, you guys have been together for almost a year, is there anything really worth breaking up with her over at this point? It sucks having these thoughts when you're in a relationship, but I hope you make the decision that's right for you. Good luck, keep me posted. ~Angel
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yes you might feel al ittle pressure about how can you end something that's been for so long, but i think that when you dont feel like being with the person then brake up. it doesnt matter how long have you been together if you dont enjoy it anymore at all and not because your girlfriend is doing something wrong or something that bothers you maybe its just that you got a little "bored" of this situation and want to try sometihng new, sometimes this happens and its not your fault or her fault ,,there just wasn't enough interested to keep this relationship longer. its veeery normal to feel like you'd like to be single sometimes when you have a parter but this is just like "we want what we can't have"..i had a 2 and a lahlf year boyfriedn and wanted to feel like single again .. and then ..finally we broke up it wasn't him i just didn't felt the excitment anymore and other things..and now just been single for a month and i want a boyfrriend hahaha its that kind of thing your feeling but maybe its just cause you dont find interesting to be with her anymore. try to think why would you feel like this , or take a brake ..to see if you relally miss her and stil care :)
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I've really never heard of someone feeling this way maybe its just a sign that your losing your feelings for her. I think you should talk to her about how you are feeling. Best of luck
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