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real friends..?
ohkayy, well i go to this school. but before it, i went to this other school where i had the best friends ever. but at my new school im not really sure if i have REAL friends. cause you see,.. lets use "lisa,jenny,mercede,mconey" as names for an example.. so lets say, lisa and jenny are best friends, but jennys friends with mercede so mercede hangs out with lisa. and mercedes friends with mconey so mconey hangs out with lisa and jenny.. but there not exactly REAL friends cause they know each other threw each other ! :) lol. well thats the kind of situation i have. and im sorry if this is confusing.. if it is tell me and i'll see if i can fix that. well .. anyways, i have a group of friends that know each other threw each other and i kinda hate some one the people. and dont know what to do cause if i say something .. i'll cause drama which i really hate.. so what do you think i should do ? please give me your opinions. i'd appreaciate it.
thanks in advance ♥
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Well, your situation actually seems pretty normal to me. I mean, that's usually how you make new friends... you meet them through other people. And just because one of your friends knew someone else first doesn't mean you can't become friends with that person, too.
Of course, you'll always meet people you don't really care for. But you're right... saying that you don't like them isn't going to accomplish anything besides making you look bad. So just keep your opinions to yourself. If you have to be around them because your other friends like them, just be nice and polite.
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wow, its kinda happens to me sometimes
i guess i would make sure not to say anything rude. think of it this way, what if that girl doesn't like you. would you like it if they said they hated you? sometimes you have to be the better person and that takes effort. act nice around her and be the best possible way you can be :)
it will be hard because you don't want to be but you can do it!
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oh gosh, these situations always seem like the worst thing sometimes, they get very annoying very easily! I have learned one thing though that will keep you safe from the drama in those friendships. Make sure that you don't say anything to any of the girls about any of them (sorry that sentance is a little confusing) because you know if you do, somehow, the words are going to get switched up and somebody's feelings will get hurt. That's another way to test your truth in the friendship, because if the person you are telling secrets to tells everyone else, thats a pretty good indicator that they aren't a very good friend. Once again I apologize for the confusion there in my one sentance, haha, but if you have any specific questions that you would like to ask me about it or if you need me to clear that up, i'd be more than happy to! Wish you best of luck with your friends! Dave :)
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